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i made a post a couple of weeks about my situation but basically i told my bf i wanted to take a break and he’s become more controlling/angry since. i basically stay at his place now so he can watch me even though i really don’t like being here but he threatens to tell my parents about us if i try to say anything back (i turned 18 last yr and he’s in his late 20s so my parents would hate me if they knew) when i ignore him or try to compromise with him on anything he either threatens me or threatens to hurt himself and i’m so emotionally exhausted. we don’t even do anything together anymore and i just feel like a toy. i feel so stuck in this relationship and i don’t know what to do and i’m scared of how he’ll respond if someone else finds out. i just want to leave pls help :(
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Might be time to preemptively strike and just tell your parents yourself. If they can't reconcile whatever plit arises, it's time to go to a women's shelter. For your own health and safety.
And for God's sake, cut every single tie you have to him. Social media, phone numbers, friends, everything. This only gets worse, so much worse.
ReplyBreak up with him first then tell your parents that you've been dating him first but its over now. You don't diserve a relationship like that.
ReplyLet him tell your parents so you can tell your parents that you wanted to break up with him anyway
ReplyWhy would they tell their parents when they already know how they’ll react??? Some times parents aren’t the best option and telling them could potentially put them in a dangerous position if they don’t get the support they need/lose contact and shelter because of it. Find a supporting adult/friend in your life that you trust !! A teacher, a friend’s parent, an older friend! I know what it feels like to lack parental protection and how emotionally and mentally draining that can be .... I’m so sorry babes :-( Try to look for sources near you that could possibly get you the help you need! Whether or not you feel comfortable with law enforcement is up to you but please contact someone as soon as possible !!! Find a stable place/someone to help you through this so that you can leave him and for good. You’re in my thoughts <3
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