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i can't stand my life right now, it's all getting to be too much
i'm a trans man, i live with my transphobic parents, (i'm 15-16) and i'm just so tired of getting deadnamed and miss gendered, it's so f*cking tiring and i wish i know what to do
my parents are your classic christian conservatives, i'm 99.9% sure there both transphobic as h*ll, so even if i did come out i don't think it would go well
i don't know what else to say, i'm just so tired of it, so done, and there's NOTHING i can freaking do about it, almost everyone i know irl is most likely transphobic
why the f did i have to be born into a transphobic and homophobic family?
it just hurts, so freaking much having to live as a girl when i'm not, and getting deadnamed, missgendered, and everything else hurts so much
i guess you can give me advice if you want, should i come out to my family and see how it goes? (and hopefully stop feeling the way i feel right now) or should i stay in the closet and keep living how i am now?
or maybe i should just come out to my older brother? (i have no clue if he's transphobic or not) (plus he might out me if i tell him)
if nothing else can someone please give me some advise on how to cope with everything? (like being deadnamed and miss gendered and anything else you can think of)
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I have no idea what that's like but tbh if I were you I would just come out just to see what happens. You're not going to get anywhere if you don't and everything will stay the same. At least coming out will give you a chance. Maybe it'll make you feel better to just get it off your chest and get it over with
ReplyDo not come out to your family until you are 100% sure you are safe! If you come out in an unsafe enviorment, you could end up homeless. Do you have any friends that are 100% supportive of you? Then tell them and ask them to help hide your identity from parents. Maybe online you could openly be a man as well? Unless you thik your parents might find out then as well. I don't know how bad your dysphoria is, but I'm assuming wearing loose clothing whenever possible might cover your chest/body shape if you dislike that. I'm very sorry that you have to go through this. You sound like a really nice man.
Good news, you only have a few more years until you can move out. If you don't have the money then, try to earn some or start saving up now. Or you could move in with a friend/supportive family member. Once you are out of the house, you can start transitioning. I hope you'll get to see that day, and try to keep hope for when it comes.
I apologize if this was unhelpful or rude. I tried my best.
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