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I kinda want to be a boy.. not 24/7 but a lot. I’m a girl and I’m comfortable and happy as a girl, but at the same time I want to be a boy. I want that fluffy hair that girls admire, but I like my long hair that goes down to my waist. I feel like if I were born a boy I would have been extremely happy, comfortable, and content, but it’s the same with being a girl. Sometimes I feel very mad or disappointed that I’m a girl. My whole life I have done such “girly” things up until about two years ago. My parents ask things like “where did my little girl go?” and that makes me want to be a boy even more. It’s like barbies and legos. While my friends do their nails and braid each other’s hair, I’m trying to figure out how to get a blue axolotl in Minecraft. While my friends apply the perfect eyeliner, I’m putting on my chapstick and moving on. I don’t know how to describe what I mean, I feel like I make no sense, but it’s just how I feel. If I have a daughter, I want to teach them baseball and play catch instead of what a period is, but at the same time it’s the opposite.
I guess that’s all.. I just had to talk to someone.
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Well... for yourself that's fine. You know? But trying to force that on a child? That's kinda low key sexual abuse, don't you think?
Don't get me wrong, you can be whoever you want to be. If you do have kids in the future, how about just not putting any kind of gender role on them at all? Let them figure out who they wanna be and just love them every step of the way, support them, let them be wacky. That's what kids are supposed to do anyway.
Who the hell cares if a boy wants to wear a dress or play with barbie dolls or if a girl wants to play baseball or wear blue jeans? They're kids, it doesn't even matter to them. They have no concept of what it even means to be a "boy" or "girl". They just know they want to have fun and be silly. Let them.
ReplyMaybe you're gender fluid..? That's what it sounds like to me.
ReplyI honestly don't think you have to label yourself, but I do think this matches the idea of being genderfluid. Maybe if you really feel like it cut your hair short to a "boys" length and allow yourself to realize if you like it or not. Hair always grows back, but if you don't feel comfortable doing that just yet maybe just do a bob cut and see how you feel in that.
Now you can still be a girl and like "boy" things. If anything gender is really just a social construct to label us at birth. It really doesn't reflect on who you will become when you get older.
I'm a girl myself and while I like both Minecraft, Fortnite, etc, I still like makeup, jewlery, and etc. It really doesn't matter your gender, you can still like things that are considered the opposite genders preference.
Although for future preference if you have a daughter you can still teach her about her body/period while still teaching her to play catch. I think you should teach her both because if you don't teach her about her body that can become detrimental to her well being.
Anyways I hope all goes well - G
Replyhmm you could possibly be genderfluid!
ReplySweetie, it's alright. Seriously. Don't be upset. I'm a female, so to speak. I like traditionally girly things, yes, but I also like things that you would expect from a boy.
It's a stupid label to call somebody boyish or girly. I wouldn't care if a woman has short hair or if a man paints his nails (you got who I'm referring to?) I had short hair too, but it grew out because of the pandemic.
Don't stress about this. Your parents probably call you that affectionately.
ReplyDon’t worry about it. It sounds like you are enjoying life. I’m 15, and female. I like to dress up occasionally (with makeup and all) and I also like to wear boys clothes, play football and play wrestling. But I am a female. It’s ok, people judge and wonder but to be frank, it’s none of their business. I believe I would enjoy life born as a male too. You are not alone 🙂
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