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I'll thank the random user who posted and gave me inspiration for this. Don't know their name so thank you, anonymous stranger.
But let's talk love.
What would be the guidelines for assessment?
Well, I think that I'd want it to be genuine people ONLY. If you aren't genuinely looking for that lifelong relationship, go to eharmony or match or whatever.
So that's the first criteria. But in order to establish whether someone is genuine or not, there would be a short questionnaire to weed out the fakes and abusers.
So let's get started. On a scale of 1 to 10 how true are the following statements?
1. I fall in love quickly and easily
2. I tend to get bored after a while in a relationship with the same person
3. I don't want to be tied down
4. I prefer to keep my options open when it comes to potential partners
5. I believe in soulmates
6. I'm serious and ready to commit
7. I'm anxious about having my heart broken by someone
8. I've got a lot of baggage from past relationships
9. I'm only looking for a good time
10. I just want to be happy
Depending on how you answer this questionnaire, the site may refuse you the ability to sign up. Though I'd want about 50 variations of each question that can swap in and out. That way it's not just as easy as finding the "correct" answers. I would want my service to be geared towards people who are genuinely looking for long lasting love.
Next up, a 18 question questionnaire about your personality. This one is completely and entirely optional bit would help in finding an ideal match.
Again, on a scale of 1 to 10, how do these statements represent something you might say or think?
1. I like being in a big crowd with loud music
2. I prefer to be alone or with someone I deeply trust, rather than large crowds
3. I like to experience new tastes, sights and smells
4. I like to have traditions and prefer to be comfortable
5. I like to talk about analytics and details, I'm not one for "emotions"
6. I like to go over information for myself and disregard feelings in favor of facts
7. I often find patterns and meanings in things that others don't see. I'm very open to whatever may come.
8. I prefer to limit options down to the best path forward and I excel at finding my way through life's problems
9. I'm usually more wrapped up in the feelings of other people and prefer an ethical approach to solve problems
10. I know what my morals are and I trust my gut instinct to know what is the right and moral thing to do.
The next 8 questions require you to choose between 1 side or the other. Still on a scale of 10, but divided into 2 halves. Rate how true these statements are to you.
1. I dislike it when other people try to tell me how I should act/I dislike it when people tell me that my thoughts are wrong
2. I have difficulty trying to find what I believe to be moral/I have difficulty trying to understand logic sometimes
3. I dislike when someone tries to talk about philosophy, metaphors or far out ideas/I dislike new experiences such as sensations, I prefer things I already know
4. I have difficulty knowing what the my best path forward is/I have troubles accepting tradition and I am not easily loyal to anyone
5. I have difficulty understanding other people's feelings, I just want to get things done/I find it hard for others to teach me or guide me
6. I don't really care about morality, I just want results/I don't care what the truth is, other people's thoughts and emotions matter
7. I don't particularly care for what's going on out there, just follow me, I'll lead the way/I'm more concerned about the things that could go wrong than anything else
8. I struggle to know what route I should take in life/I struggle to find comfort in many things, so once I find it I'm not opt to moving away from it
These questions will help determine what kind of person you are and understanding yourself gives you the ability to understand others.
Next is our final questionnaire about what kinds of things you dislike. Having similar dislikes can actually be more beneficial than having similar likes. So let's go through on a scale from 1 to 10, 10 questions.
1. I dislike physical displays of affection
2. I dislike being forced to go to large parties with people I don't know
3. I dislike talking about emotions
4. I dislike ruruss do behavior
5. I dislike loud voices/yelling
6. I dislike seperation from my partner
7. I dislike being purposefully ignored (aka the silent treatment)
8. I dislike popular themes and try to avoid them
9. I dislike the outdoors
10. I dislike fast food
Those are the 3 major questionnaires that I could think of right off the top of my head.
One thing I will note is that I wouldn't want my service to cater to one gender or age group over another, unlike certain other sites. So I believe it would be within reason to say $5/mo for paid memberships and that's it. Nothing grimey from behind the scenes where we don't expose you because you didn't pay or you're not a certain age or any of that.
I would want my service to be an equal opportunity provider and then, using feedback from users, we could fine tune more questions to help guide each person that is looking for love ever after, to that special someone out there. Using the power of the internet to actually bring happiness into people's lives. That would be my goal.
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This is great. Unfortunately, when it comes to love, someone could be genuinely interested in finding love and still hurt someone due unrequited feelings. Falling in love is determined by various factors. How you meet, when you meet, smell, looks, personality, similarities, differences all play a factor. I recommend you listen to this video on scientific matchmaking. It has very interesting information. https://youtu.be/zrSss-Gfj_w
ReplyWell, I watched it all the way through and seems I've opened pandora's box of research... yay
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