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I need to get over my unrequited crush.. But I'm bad with words and we don't talk much anymore..
I talked with this guy for months since last year. I can't remember when, but I remember falling for him soooo bad. We unexpectedly clicked in numerous instances. It feels like we have the same wit and humor. He's smart, playful, and more charming than I thought he was back when I first knew him ages ago. We spent nights talking online, and I felt and thought I was special. He used to message me about random and clever ideas, and I cherished the intellectual intimacy. He chatted me when he got bad dreams, when he had embarrassing stories to tell, and just whenever he felt like it.
Now, he suddenly cut me off, only to hear from a friend that he finally got himself a girlfriend. I never knew. I want to be happy for him, but I can't help but feel like I was kept in the dark all along. I thought that if he could tell me all his stories before, he'd tell me of this great news. I would've cheered him on, but I don't think I was at least a special friend from the beginning.. I mean, if he could fall for someone that quickly, what was I to him during that time? I feel so disposable. It hurts to just be someone's pastime.
Why did he treat me that way only to shut me off? Could I really blame him? Maybe it's not my place to know about his love life. Is it my fault for hoping for more?
I wish I could redirect all that wasted love to someone who'd actually reciprocate it.
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ReplyOP here. I agree that communication will help clarify things. I just wish it was that simple for a shy person like me. He even seems so happy now.. I don't know how to talk about it. I'll try to though. Thanks
ReplyHow others treat you is not a reflection of your worth
ReplyAlso, don’t blame yourself for something no one foresaw
ReplyThank you! I kinda needed that.. I'm doing ok, just really hurt. I'm still trying to work on feeling better about myself.
ReplyWell you know what they say, can’t find yourself in other people! Take your time in feeling hurt, there’s more than this waiting for you on the horizon. Go chase what makes you feel more like yourself. Libraries run free programs a lot of the time, i found several passions there
ReplyIt may not seem like it now but there's more out there, don't stress. He seems like the center of the universe, but he's not, he's a miniscule part of it.
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