Neurodivergent

Is being oblivious to romantic flirting or romantic feeling or like that kind of stuff a sign of having ADHD or autism or being your average it because if it is that would make a lot of sense about me because I’ve got a suspicion that I have like autism or ADHD or something and I’ve noticed recently that holy fucking shit I am very oblivious and if this is a make any sense it’s because I’m using the speech to text feature on my phone so I’m sorry in advance. But yeah I noticed that like this guy was really hard-core flirting with me and I didn’t notice that he was in my friends kept pointing it out and was like no you’re just stupid and then I realized it and I was like holy shit and like now it’s obviously too late because I haven’t lived in the last all year like from last August until now August. And even the last guy I talk to I have never gotten out of the talking stage but the last guy I talk to he had ADHD and he can’t talk to me about some of the stuff I’m like holy shit I wish I didn’t talk to him about it so I didn’t want to be like what like whatever I was listening to him but it was really weird. So yeah back to my main point does autism and ADHD do that does that cause obliviousness in flirting?