stay away from my man!!!!

I never really thought I was the jealous type, but this vacation has been testing me. I guess I should be thankful that I'm here at all rather than upset, but it's hard.

So, my boyfriend and I just got engaged, and our friend circle is pretty much my siblings, his cousins, and a few other friends, and, even though we're all different ages (16-38), we're all super close. So, one of his cousins that he's super close is a housekeeper, and one of her clients has a nice beach house in Rockport. She posted something about us getting engaged on Facebook, and he was like, "I've got a beach house, here's the address, here's the code on the door, stay this week, hats off to the lovebirds, have fun," pretty much a free vacation, we have to clean the house when we leave (we looked up his regular rates and we're getting a $4200 vacation free)

Some of our friends are in their last years of high school, and they are already in their practices, so they couldn't come, and others are in college. Still, a lot of our family got to come, and it's a big house, so we all fit, but the cousin that's the housekeeper couldn't get out of bringing her aunt, who is about ten years younger than her and nearly four years older than my fiance. They both went to the super small school in the town he still lives in, and they were in the 7-12 grade band together for a while. He's mentioned her name before, but he's never talked about her (IDK if that makes sense)

So anyway, the housekeeper is named Antler, and she told me, "Scarlett (her aunt) is pretty annoying. Just tune her out." Keep in mind I've never met his girl, and all boyfriend told me is that she doesn't always have a filter when she talks, so she might say to you something you probably don't want to know.

We get to the house and get everything situated. My fiance has two Rottweiler/Pittbull/ Great Pyrenees mixes, so they're giant dogs, but they're absolute sweethearts. The calmer of the two, one of them is a registered service dog because he has trauma-based BPD and PTSD, which causes extreme mood swings and stress-induced seizures, but he usually only takes him if he's going somewhere alone that has a lot of people. If literally anyone he's close with is with him, he doesn't take the dog because he trusts us, and we know what to do.

On the other hand, Scarlett has a Yorkie and a Shitzu, and one of them is an emotional support animal that she rescued. It's not registered to her, but she treats it like it is. Scarlett knows Luka (my bf) has these issues but still goes on and on about 'her emotional support animal' and 'she can take her dog in the store' and all of these things, and he ignores her, but I feel like it bugs him. And she also treats them like her literal children, like; she is gonna buy them souvenirs, does skin to skin with one of them, they have to take medicine, they wear diapers, she's so weird.

She also tries way too hard to be near him or to be around him. Like, when we go out to eat, she stays near him at all times, even though she has relatives on this trip. He sat on the end of the table next to me, and she pulled a chair around so she could sit next to him. And then if she needs to go somewhere, she asks him where it's at, and he's like, "I've never been here either, I dunno." Or if she's going somewhere, she can be in the same room as everyone else, and we will be out on the balcony or in the pool or our room, alone, and she'll text him where she's going, but won't tell anyone else where she's going.

And like, in any small instance that something happens, she relies on him when there are like ten other people around. Like we went to the beach the other day, and I was on a sandbank with Antler and my sister Amy, and Luka was about ten yards away from us wading out with his cousins bc they're goobers. They bought boogie boards, so we were watching them wipe out (and they're all pretty tall, around 6'0 or more, so they went pretty far out), and Scarlett is trying to go out to catch them. Antler tells her, 'You're not gonna be able to catch them. The waves are too strong over there.' and she kept going, calling him to help her, and they were all watching her like wtf is she doing?

Then, we got back to the house, and she told him she started her period and that if we went back to the beach, she couldn't get in the ocean bc she didn't want to get eaten by a shark. We went night fishing that night, and she wouldn't go near the dock for that reason, and he told her, "It's okay, we can use you and your dogs as bait."

And another thing, bc the list can go on forever. I don't know what she does for a living, but at first, she kept asking if he had enough money bc he buys my meals. Then one of his cousins, who is 15, forgot his wallet, so he bought it for him too, and he kept telling her, "I'm fine, it's okay," and I thought maybe it was just bc she wanted to treat us bc of the engagement and them all the other shit happened and I was like yeah no she likes him. That night the boys barbecued, and we had a campfire, and it was actually really fun, and someone asked what all he does bc I guess they never actually knew what he did, and so he was talking about it, and she asked if it was good pay and he was saying all the benefits he gets from it, plus the pay it gets and the tips he makes, (it is a good-paying job and he likes it, even better) and she was like, oh, and got quiet, and then after that, she kept making it a point to say she was running out of money, but only when she was around him, and if anyone offers to buy her something, she gets shy and declines their offer, but she doesn't even buy any of her own stuff, Antler does. And if anyone talks about their human children, including Luka (he's got a 1 year old daughter from a previous relationship) she immediately turns the conversation to her dogs and is like, "I'm a mom too, I'm a mom too." no, honey, you've got dogs. we're talking about human children. you've got yappy little rat dogs that watch cartoons, wear diapers and eat your birth control and your vibrator (yes, she told us this too.)

She keeps telling him that she has two snapchat accounts, one for people she knows and one for hookups, and she keeps trying to take seductive pictures around him. Then, she decided to bring up her hookup account at dinner and said, "Luka, I just want you to know, I got a date, but I turned him down." and he was like, "okay?" and Antler was like, "Because you're on vacation?" and she was like, "No he lives here in Rockport, but I turned him down. It was because I posted a catfish on my snapchat for hookups. Do you want to be on it?" And Luka pointed at me, said, "Nope. And if you need a reason, she's right there."

She's such a try hard and I'm honestly about to tell her, "You know you got this free vacation because he proposed to me, right? He's getting married. To me. He's taken. Stay away." I told him and Antler last night about how much this all was bugging me and my birthday is today, so he's taking a shower right now, but we're gonna go to dinner, just the two of us, and Antler has my number so if anything happens she can call me, he's leaving his phone behind so she'll leave him alone. I'm kind of glad that I told them something though. If i would've told her something, I would've been like, "You know why we got this free vacation? Because he decided he wants to marry me. You see this ring? He wants me. He's taken. Stop flirting with him. He's not interested. Quit being such a self centered hoebag." okay, rant over, I'm just pissed that this four foot air head is trying to be all over my man on our engagement vacay. and on my birthday nonetheless. thank you for coming to my ted talk.