What are you looking for?
Featured Topics
Select a topic to start reading.
So,
my friend is talking to a dude that they knew might have an interest in me and it's weird. TBH - I don't really care much, but it's weird that they saw this and they soon jumped into dating him. They asked me if I liked him and I said no, not because I didn't like him but I didn't know if I did because I barely had time to identify my feelings. I can care less about him, but it's weird to me that someone would do that. Why go after someone because they're interested in someone else? Do you not think I'm deserving you had to step in?
They asked me if it was okay to talk about him and I said no because we never fully revisited the conversation in the first place. I think it's weird to have this done to me when I know if it were them, and the roles were reversed they would freak out because I've seen them do it before. It's made me realize that sometimes we equate someone giving you attention liking them and it's not synonymous. My issue isn't about feelings, it's integrity. If my friend really cared how I felt, we should've had a second follow-up convo that wasn't rushed like the first but that didn't happen. They did what they wanted to do. It makes me question their views towards me and other things in my life that might be good for me. Is this jealousy? Them exploring a romantic connection does not negatively impact me because, at the end of the day, I don't have interest, but now I feel bad for calling them out on it when I have a right to express my feelings and hold them accountable for a dynamic they created. He's my friend too and now that's oddly controlled because of this situation and the whole thing is weird/
If you see a comment that is unsupportive or unfriendly, please report it using the flag button.
More Posts
-
Why do people think it'll always be the same as day one?
I thought he knew better. Of course the honeymoon phase will be over. Then there's the hard work! Doesn't mean that we're fighting or we're not as lovey dovey,...
-
thinking she doesn't love me
baby i'm not strong like you. i admire you. you think about things and then follow through, even to where it no longer makes sense sometimes. if you're wonderin...
Yes it is weird.
Reply