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His name is Jayden and i really wanna be friends with him but I'm the new kid at school and i know if i ask to be friends he would say no cuz who wants to be friends with the new kid. I've been crying for the past half hour because I'm disappointed in myself. its the second week of school and i haven't talked to him once. The only time i could talk to him is when we go outside for free time and i always tell myself i can do it and I'm confident about talking to him except for when i see him. I sound like a hopeless romantic don't I. I'm currently in social studies typing this out and hes the only thing on my mind. He has been the past 2 weeks and hes the only thing I've been talking about with my friends and parents pretty much. I know nobody's gonna read this but if you have thank you. Please give me some advice on how to talk to him without getting nervous because I look like I seen a ghost every time I see him lmao.
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Hey! No need to fret! There's no reason not to be friends with the "new kid" anyways. Give it a chance and ask!!<3
Replylmfao, I forgot to add some advice:
-during free time, start some small talk about little things like classes or common interests
-if you have any mutual friends, ask them to introduce you
-if you have any classes together, try starting conversations about them (later on, you can get into more comfortable conversations)
- For convo starters: Since you're still new, maybe ask them about things you're new to in school (Don't over-do it though, they might think you're using them just for help info)
>That's all I got for now, update me on how things go!<
ReplyOK SO GOOD NEWS. We've had some small talk sat
Replywhoops bust we've had small talk at free time NOT MUCH BUT its a start and hes actually really nice! At least from what we've talked about but ill let time unroll it out itself and slowly become closer. And also sorry it took me so long to update we had a long weekend and it wouldnt let me get on here yesterday but ill try and update as much as possible ^^!
ReplyIt's alright! But I'm really glad that things are going well!!<3
ReplyIve also made a kinda sorta friend we just met today and shes also friends with him! Im not gonna like use her just to become friends but when we become closer ill ask if she can introduce me to him!
ReplyHello you.
Meeting new people is always nerve-wrecking for me too. Wanting to talk to someone I find cool and feeling like I can't measure up. I stumble over my words, I get jittery and self-conscious.
Usually I do this: I walk like I'm alone in the room, and I'm trying to make someone I know closely laugh. I make everything a joke, and I decide it's ok that this person right now might think I'm stupid and weird, because I am stupid and weird. And if it makes them laugh, they'll want to know me beyond what I seem, because humans are more than their first impressions.
So I walk like I own the place, scared like a cat before a bath, I might trip, stutter and move loads. But when they smile or laugh, so do I.
And in the end, people are nicer to you than you are to yourself. They want to get to know you often times more than they want to judge you. And they tend to not really care about nervous behaviour, if they notice at all!
So hey! A compliment never goes wrong, get them to talk loads about themselves and let your insecurities become quirks and easy jokes and you'll get that friend in no time.
So take a big breath and good luck!
ReplyIm gonna be toxic about this.....Stop chasing him,instead,be friend with others who Wanna be friend with u.Through time,he will ask u to be ur friend without asking..I Once being a new kid in my new school,and,thats kind of things happen.But,now,i dont want to ask ppl to be my friend.I Just focus on what I need to do at school and,without asking,they came to me..But,ofcourse,I also didnt like it.They Just came to me for asking Help or whatever.But,luckily,There are some who r really sincere to be friend with me,now,she is my bsf :)
So,i learned a things.Stop chasing ppl who are getting away,Yet look for ppl who are walking Beside u always.
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