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i feel like a bother all the time. i know im clingy and needy. i honestly just see myself as annoying and attention-seeking. i text my girlfriend all the time. i feel like i always text her first though- so in my head i say to myself, "fine then, i wont text her first for a few days and lets just see how often we talk." but i never go through with it! i cant go two hours without talking to her. but then when she doesnt answer me, i dont text her again after that. i dont want to text her multiple times in a row with her not answering. its gonna seem weird right? i cant find the word for it.
is it bad if my whole mood is based off of our conversations. maybe i overthink everything too much.
but i cant find it in me to talk to her about this kind of stuff. maybe i just dont like feeling vulnerable? i feel like she wont validate my feelings. i know she will though! shes an amazing person and shes so sweet.. im just scared i guess.
and i dont want to bring her down. if she thinks im happy, then she will be happy too. right?
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hey buddy,
just want to let you know that being vulnerable is completely okay and healthy, yes, even for guys. as a fellow stranger looking in on your relationship, it sounds like you need to work on yourself more. if you feel that you are attached/clingy and crave for attention all the time, maybe you should look into being more independent as a person. remember that a healthy relationship is two people coming together because they love each other and can see a future together and want to build towards it together. it's completely okay to overthink. it's a human thing. maybe instead of questioning whether or not your girlfriend will do something, you should just bring it up to her when you're comfortable of course. if you're not happy, you should have a conversation about it with her instead of lying to her. that's unhealthy and not okay.
good luck to you and i wish you the best
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