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ok, i would love some quick advice here because i'm majorly freaking out and not sure what to do.
so basically, i'm 18 years old, and i'm lesbian (this is relevant, trust me). I live in a christian community and i'm not out yet. and i'm not coming out just yet, so don't try to pressure me into that, i'm already stressed enough 🤦♂️
Anyway, I have a date with this guy tonight. It was introduced informally over text, and it's just like a lowkey hangout with him and another couple. this guy is one of my older brother's best friends growing up. He's pretty nice, he's kind've cynical and all but the long and short of it is i don't know how to act or what to do or what to say. I don't want to be too encouraging because anything that happens will eventually butt heads with the fact that i'm lesbian, even though i can't say that to him.
Basically I guess i'm asking any advice for how to be nice but not necessarily flirty with a dude on a first date? I've never officially dated before.
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I never went on a date with a guy too. Maybe because i know I will never be interested in them. I'm afraid that i might not be able to help but just think of them as a friend. Talk to them like how you would with a casual friend. Talk about typical stuff like how's life?
Replyhonestly that's really solid advice. i've been thinking i'd just treat it like a normal hangout. i'm just bothered because i'm such an awkward conversationalist.
ReplyYou'll do great. Goodluck!
Replyas a gay member in the closet too, id advise you to talk to him like you would talk to your brother, no compliments, no touching him, just smile, share interests, listen nd stay lowkey on the background, hug him at the end or a kiss on the cheek.
i wish you lots of goodluck love!
Replyjust talk to him like a guy you know, avoid touches so he doesn't think otherwise and if at the end he asks you out again say we'll see or something like that, so it won't be arranged again. you don't have to say it anyway, not all dates lead somewhere.
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