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I just started this new job maybe 3 weeks ago, it's been an overall positive experience and I get along with damn near everyone. I think this is the first job I've had where several people have constantly complimented me and also praised my hard work.
There's this one guy though.. I don't even know how to explain it. He asks questions like he really wants to get to know you. His eyes alone somehow make you feel at ease. He has flat out called me beautiful and said he's attracted to me and I had butterflies ever since. He has kids and he also will ask things like "do you like kids? would you be with someone who already had kids?"
He says often that there's just something about me.. and he's dying to figure it out.
not to mention, everyone there has nothing but good to say about him and his character/work ethic. He's a good father, he's introverted unless comfortable like I am, he's funny, respectful, stays out of drama and his voice is so soothing somehow.
My emotions are all confused with this though.. because he has a gf. He's complimented me but still been respectful to her of course. He mentions her to other coworkers but it seems to only be negative that I hear for some reason. Plus when I met her once, she literally stares everyone down, she gives off such evil vibes despite being physically beautiful. He has said to me and another coworker once that he can feel her watching him while he sleeps and its scary and the coworker was like "just think you'll have to live with that forever." and he looked right at me and said "not necessarily, that's why god gave us free will."
there are times where I call him sweet or that his personality makes people feel comfortable immediately or something and his eyes just light up
ugh idk I've never been in this situation. I cant shake whatever feelings seem to keep growing in this, I cant seem to shake my attraction. I'm always respectful of their relationship but it sucks to finally feel like this after so many years and I don't get to pursue it.
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Do not pursue it until he breaks up with his girlfriend. You can’t date a man, no matter how perfect he is with baggage because at the end of the day, that baggage will soon catch up to the both of you and you’d have to ask yourself this; can you carry the burden? He sounds like a great guy but a guy that respects you will break it off with his gf before he dates you. And honestly no blemish on your conscious is he does, no behind the back affairs and whatnot because damn girl, is that how you want to start a relationship?
There’s a rainbow tho. If you hang out with him and stuff maybe tentatively feel out his relationship with his gf. See what he’s thinking (mainly if he’s going to split from her). You could subtly push the idea to him. Subliminal messaging haha by saying “oh yeah I heard a friend of mine who’s going thru the same rough patch. She’s decided to break it off and find someone better”.
Hope it goes well!
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