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I'm a fresh graduate and supposedly looking for a job but I'm too lazy. Currently I'm following a skill training program which I thought would give me the motivation or push that I need to get moving but only on my 2nd week and I'm already too lazy to follow the lessons. Now I feel like skipping one of the lessons. But this program gives me opportunity by giving out my resume to employers and I actually received some invitations from it but what I thought would be a happy thing makes me actually anxious. I don't think I'm ready yet for such a big responsibility as a paid job and I acknowledged my lack of skills and knowledge. Of course, I have learned all those things in university but since it's been long since I've actually applied any of it or practising it, I'm becoming dumb. So of course the right thing to do is to revise and practice all those knowledge and skills and that's why I started this program. But my laziness is overpowering. I'm truly lacking self control over that but then I also don't really feels like doing anything other than play games, watch movies and sleeping. Motivational speech or a slap of reality both didn't really help me much. What to do?
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I think you know the best answer to that.
For me when I am feeling that way, I try to get myself to see the bigger picture. Like if I continue doing nothing and being lazy, where am I going to end up in a couple of years. It helps a lot. That’s what keeps me going. My future.
But maybe you can try to set up a goal. For example, you do one lesson and then you can play a game for an hour or so. Train and discipline yourself in a way that you can accomplish these things. Motivation won’t get you anywhere nowadays. Discipline does (maybe you can search more on that and some techniques).
I totally understand the anxiousness too. It’s something new but sometimes you just gotta suck it up and do it. It gets easier with time.
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