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Massive scar

7 months ago · 1 · Stress, +5


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I have been struggling emotionally because of a big scar on my legs. I am so ashamed of it…. I couldn’t wear shorts and dresses outside our house.

I think it is disgusting and I am afraid to show it to the guy who have been courting me for a year now.. I am so paranoid and afraid that he might get turn off by it… I want to show all my flaws and tell all my stories to him except this one… What should I do? How can I tell him about it? Need your opinions please.. :)

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  • Novni Guest · 7 months ago

    Either he accepts and loves you for you the way you are or he really doesn't love you. Maybe try talking about it through a text it might be easier that way if you want him to know about it that is. A scar can't be helped. He should know that. If he loves you it shouldn't bother him. Everybody has their own flaws. I'm sure he has his as well.

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