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i don't know what to do am I fighting for something that just wont happen? I met this incredibly girl that ive pretty much been nonstop talking to ever since we first got to know eachother and its been so good and so nice. Feelings ive never felt with anyone has been happening with her. Its been exciting, and like a fresh breath or air and its given me so much happiness.
but shes hard to read, I dont really know where her head is at and shes not the one to talk about feelings so I dont wanna push her on that either. One day it seems like she in it for this, but other days it seems like shes just really bothered and shes harder to talk to and shes being dry. I know our distance is hard and difficult, but none of us have ever cared about it before so I havent even thought that might be a problem?
I'm not really sure what im supposed to do in this situation? because im trying and I do want this to work, but I dont want to be the only one thats fully in this. and im wondering if Im supposed to give her the same energy back as she gives me? is it because im her first girl experience? is she tired of me? is she bored of me? im not sure what im supposed to do here.
and sometimes I make small comments about asking where her thoughts are at and every time she makes it clear its the same as mine, but I just dont understand. Maybe im more emotional about it today bc im just emotional in general, but please I need some takes because im not sure if im just setting myself up for being hurt.
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if you both are comfortable in each other's presence, it is a good sign. if youre her. first girl experience, shes possibly extremely nervous and trying to figure herself out in the first place. its not against you ig.
continue talking to her. the more comfortable she feels around you, the better. if youre sure about how you feel, you dont need to reciprocate any other vibe. not even to. fit into what she may feel . because again, shes confused ig.
try communicating more. on the days that shes dry, work harder in that area. ask her if everythings ok. she will probably say yea. but persist slowly and carefully. try to enter her comfort zone. dont barge into it; grow into it. she wont be scared that way
also tell her sometimes being more direct will help you in your friendship/relationship. its not always fair for you to say. how you feel and for. her to say "same" to it all. tell her that theres a 50/50 required and even if youre not there yet, some effort, some words could help you keep going , or else you. may have to take a step back for your own peace of mind
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