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i am almost 20 years old , and never had a relationship ever , when i see my charismatic & deeped voice & long silky haired friend having multiple girls sending him pics , having fun with them , and he brags about it in front of me .. that's torturing me and is getting me depressed even if i don't show it in front of him , but i can't hold it anymore . i don't know what's wrong with me for being lonely all this time , or is just love some tail that i would never experience in this phase of life . knowing that i am so normal not like my charismatic friend , makes me lose hope on getting girls . or should i just lose it ?
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short: yes, just lose it and focus on yourself.
longer:
- World in up side down. What are we chasing is running out of us and what we do not want looking for way to get to us. Be yourself and put this aside, it will find the way to you.
- Everyone wants something what he miss, so it is also possible that you can hear them sometimes that they want to be alone etc. I know it might not be understandable from your perspective but is like that.
- There is a question about prefferences. Question is quality vs quantity. I could understand that you would take those girls. But it does not necessary mean they're worth it. Trust me some girls better not to be with.
In overall if you would setup the focus on yourself to put more value on you (gym, study, work) the girls would be more interested in you because you'll have more values. Thing is you'll not need to advertise yourself anymore they would just come.
Hope it helps
Replythanks a lot , your words are rational , i feel a little bit relieved to be honest
i appreciate it !
ReplyI'm an almost 21 year old female and also can't get a single guy. I've just gotten used to it. I try not to think about it so much even though it's very difficult. But I just work on myself hoping that when the day comes and I do meet this person I am emotionally ready to have a relationship.
Replyi am glad that you've gotten used to it , i think i will follow your steps and do as you say for i think i will find peace in it . Thank you !
Replytrust the process. just try to be ok with being with you. once your happy being with you. itll attract another. its crazy but its just how the process works
Replythis process seems rational , so i will trust it . thanks a lot !
Replydon't worry. I was also 21 when I had my first girlfriend. There are many like us. What I can definitely say, now being 43, is that things that make boys/girls attractive in your teens/early twens such as looks tend to lose their importance later on. I am sure you won't stay alone, but you also have to get active. Don't expect that your dream partner will approach you. Good luck!
Replythank you my kind sir !
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