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been an interesting couple of day's my niece who is soon to be 13 is having a lot of questions about her sexuality and gender , J identifies as being gender fluid and has discussed being attracted to women/girls more so than boys/men.
J is very special to me because her arrival in my life was the beginning of me growing up and maturing, J is a physical symbol of that to me.
I don't have all the context yet, as I have not spoken to her in person , but am happy to sit and listen to J. So I should know more by that time. I am glad in a sense that we have created enough of an atmosphere where she can feel like she can talk about it ....if it was the opposite I would feel like we have failed her.
I will be concerned for how my mum will react, my mum done the best she could with us all, but she is very super religious and can sometimes say insensitive things. She thought I was gay because I don't ever talk about dating women???? but forgets the number of relationships I have had with women and that I declared I was taking a break to work on myself before I date again as it was needed. So the only aspect that gives me anxiety will be how my mother will be about this as she has said somethings at times that are not the nicest.
I will do some more research and reading , ask questions because ignorance is not bliss in this case.
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Good luck! So glad J has someone supportive like you
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