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When I asked my boyfriend if he loves me, he said he really doesn't know what love is. He said he cares about me immensely and wants to make me happy and never wants to hurt me but he doesn't know if that is love. How can he find out what love is? Is there any way I can prove to him that what he feels is exactly what love is? His parents divorced when he was younger so I feel that may have influenced his views on whether real love exists or not. I want to hear your thoughts from anyone who has been through something similar. Describe what love feels like without romanticizing it too much like they do in the movies please thank you!
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ReplyBeing in love is the most beautiful thing in life . what feel did u have for him when saw him each time the same should happen inside him like he should feel the brain chemicals that trigger such magic when he such love feel for . However, he might feel a bit stressed at times because of his parents divorced . may be One question which keeps on hitting his mind again and again is whether he can sincerely loves you or not? and you said he cares about you immensely and wants to make you happy and never wants to hurt you but he doesn't know that is love . now you have to show him what is love what you feel about him talk to him.
ReplyIf he loved you he would know. Everyone knows when they love someone. He is obviously very fond of you but he doesn't love you.
Replylove gives you this gravitational pull toward someone. it's like you have an unexpected knowing about who a person is without knowing anything about them. it's security and risk all rolled into one. but, love isn't just a feeling, it's also a decision. it's seeing a person for who they are, accepting them as they are and supporting them as they grow into who they will become. love is beyond our control, yet what we do with it is in our control.
ReplyMarriage is the biggest commitment there is, since it is just that: a commitment, with many legal and financial implications, not to mention the possibility of having a family. All. A. Huge. Commitment.
When a man loves a woman - he can't live without her. When a man can't live without a woman - he asks her for marriage. Give it time, but set your boundaries. And within the timeframe of your boundaries you will know, and you will have a decision to make. Best of luck.
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