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This is just for me to ask for someone who will read this and say "girl you're crazy"
My boyfriend and I got a really nice relationship (we're about to move in together), I wouldn't say perfect but we manage and we still love each other after so many years! recently, my boyfriend has been conflicted about this situation that involves a girl who has been working with him from kinda a long time... got my attention because I found it weird given the time... She's not mean as far as I know (I personally don't know her but my boyfriend talks about all his friends and she's included so I just know what my boyfriend says about her aswell other friends.) She's been working with another team for almost a year, her team was in a bad shape ever since their manager quit so they had to catch up fast with the boss requests (they're from an IT department). She used to date one of my boyfriend's best friend and they recently broke up (a few months ago... I think?) they weren't in the same team or even in the same area, they all work in the same building. From a while I've been hearing more and more about this girl from my boyfriend not in a particular interested way (I think) but more like she was getting closer to him. Her team got a new manager and the manager has been with them from about 2 months; she recently talked to my boyfriend about changing teams and she asked if she could be in his team because she was feeling uneasy on her team. My boyfriend talked to me asking for advice (I am a manager in a publicity agency so kinda happens and I help new workers feel welcome in their teams) and told him that maybe the new manager changed the way of working and she was uncomfortable about that. My boyfriend agreed on it and he talked to one of his friends, who is in the same team with her if something has happened ever since the new manager arrived but his answered was shocking because everything was okay and they were working just like before. My boyfriend asked her about her reasons but she told him it was from before their old manager quit and was asking him to talk to his team leader to see if that was plausible (she even told him she was going to talk with the boss and explain her reasons, being one of them that "she and my boyfriend are a great team" and they haven't worked together ever since they got into the job... My boyfriend agrees there's something weird about it but he wants that situation solved as soon as possible and I got the feeling she might like him one way or another but I didn't tell that to my boyfriend because, I'm unsure and I don't want to look like I'm jealous. I'm mostly afraid because we're about to live together and I don't want something to happen to our relationship...
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I think your boyfriend should put her in her place and make her stay there if she’s being too friendly. You have a right to be kind of jealous. It may seem like nothing but women can be sneaky! Maybe he shouldn’t be on her team. The way you feel matters too. But, if you have nothing to worry about let it be, but as a female you only have a right to your feelings. Even if they seem irrational you are entitled to them. I would be a little skeptical myself. Best of luck and I hope he doesn’t join her team.
ReplyThank you, your reply even if it makes me a little sad to know I'm not entirely out of my mind it ease me a little because of the same thing... I will talk to him about this and let us see if we can figure this out without any confrontation
ReplyHe seems willing to want to be open. Which is good. Shows he isn’t interested but if she is, nothing will stop her.
ReplyWait and see. If she broke up and she is suddenly getting closer to your bf def need to be cautious. She might be having hard time whatever but as you know it is common where two people get close by helping one person after their break up. Like other person says, if she gets little too friendly your bf needs to confront about a line that she cannot cross
ReplyHmm, you might want to keep an eye on her. Every third person comes in to cause to trouble in relationships. You've got a loving man it seems but better the girl don't join his team. Woman knows what other woman's intentions are without them telling you and I believe you already know what the other girl's is. Better keep your man in safe zone. Good luck シ︎
ReplyHi thank you for your replies yesterday, it really helped me a lot! I wanted to let you know that I've already talked to my boyfriend and there wasn't any kind of conflict and reassured me that nothing and no one will get in between our relationship! He even told me that if this girl tries to do something he will be clear about it.
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