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My Unsent Letter (To my family on my mother's side and maybe stepfather's side)
2 years ago · 0 · Family problems, +4
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To my mother's side, this year will be the last thanksgiving get-together. Why? Maybe covid-19 lockdown or losing my friends died from covid or natural causes. This experience made me reevaluate my life and life goals. However, years of favoritism towards my cousin because he was well taken care of and needed support until he married a woman to a rich family. Compared to my other cousins and my siblings, and I received little support or emotional support. Yet, still, criticize me for simple mistakes or life events that I cannot control or foresee. First, my family criticizes me for going to college having no plans or future instead of having a full-time job. Unfortunately, I had dropped out because my mother signed my loans papers to the bank to remodel the house. At the same time, my stepfather did not sign and didn't work during the time. I didn't find out until the last min. Second, my family complained that I don't see them often; well, first, I had to work and find a full-time job because my mother is B**thing about not paying rent. Second, if I do go, every time they see me, all they do is criticize. They said that I have no direction in life or try to be like my cousin, who is well supported. But, after my termination from a five-year job in 2019 and covid lockdown. Their criticism and complaining settle down for a while. But, back at it again later on. Now. I enjoyed my last best-cooked meal and seeing me once the pandemic is over. Planning to go live in Asia or find a suitable girlfriend or wife to bring home. In addition, I ended the bloodline or ended marrying a woman within my race. I am tired of seeing generations of the same problem or abused within the race. It's time for a change and also to feel belong compared to my biological family. I am sorry, but sometimes they did it on themselves for pushing to the limit.
On my stepfather's side, the family is more relaxed and understanding. The first years were rough and mean. But, later on, they accept me as their own. Also, they accept me more because of my stepfather's stupid and narcissistic behavior. Even they rarely talk to him. Sometimes they ask about me.
As the new year approaches, time for me to find a new family or family that is willing to accept my flaws in life. P.S. I am writing fast before I go to work.
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