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Was staying with my bf last night, got curious about his girl best friend that he knows since they were young. He has been talking to her for a long time, he only told me about her when I saw many snaps from her many times on his phone.
My bf is always nice to me, he seems to be a trust worthy person and I love him a lot. I'm always overthinking, i told him about it and he said it was fine, he understood. He reasured me not so worry too much, they texting often because they had been friend for a long time and he told me he had no feeling toward her and just saw her as a friend.
Last night while he was sleeping, I decided to see the messages between them, i know it a bad thing to do but i wanted to know if he was really honest with me. So yea, i saw their snaps, they were talking about travelling the world, she wanted to save up and bought him a ticket too so that they could travel together, planning to go to different countries together, and my bf seemed happy and keen on going with her and even recommended places where they could stay. I don't know if they said "we", is that just include him and her or there are someone else but it was like a hit to my heart and it made me feel somewhat broken...
Next morning, i acted like nothing happen but deep down, i was somwwhat still broken, i trust him but at the same time i feel scared, really scared if one day he broke his promise to never lie to me. For me, when being in a realtionship, you should set boundaries to people that you think might make your partner worried. I really don't know how to deal with this feelings, maybe i'm just overthinking about their relationship or he just want to be nice to her, i don't know, i'm so lost...
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Them wanting to travel together does not necessarily equate to him being in love with her. I have friends of the opposite sex whom I would *love* to travel to Paris or New York with.
If you’re concerned about it, I would recommend talking to him! Don’t let it eat you up instead of communicating.
Replyif it were me i'd let him carry on long enough to try to see if he is sharing hotel rooms with her and leave him if he his. that is the boundary being crossed. if someone's committed, they shouldn't be doing anything that even looks like they might be being unfaithful. if you do, you're showing the world what youre willing to do while your partner is not by your side. its disgraceful to the relationship. unless you are in some open arrangement, in which case, he really isn't yours.
ReplyStart talking to him about traveling the world together and see how he reacts.
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