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i have a male best friend and a female best friend, they are dating but every time something goes wrong they go straight to me like i am the relationship therapist.
well the female best friend went way out of line and followed and stalked the male for over four hours while he ate dinner with friends in a restaurant, she sat out in the parking lot like some stalker all because she didn't believe he was actually with friends. (he was with friends btw)
i told him what she did, it caused them to break up. and the female friend is no longer my friend.
did i do the right thing? idk i thought what she did was so wrong and kind of psycho? like if i were being stalked i would want to know, you know? but now she says i have betrayed her and chose sides between them when that wasn't my intention at all.
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Take it light bro. Girl is young and immature, she would grow into a better person some day. There must be some fault from the boy's side as well, as why didn't she believe him, he must have broken her trust in past I assume. Any ways, you could have confronted your female friend first, and made her realize what she did. But that's fine, this relationship was already on the verge of collapse. Don't take all the blame on yourself. You are a good guy and that's why you feel sorry for loosing a good friend. If any thing you could do to get your female friend back you should, but dont try too hard, it will be waste of time if she has already made her mind.
ReplyYou were concerned and that's okay. Whether or not is was "right" or "wrong" can very much depend on the situation and everyone involved. So, I would try not to take it too hard. At the same time, it's not exactly fair for them to have always came to you for their issues. You shouldn't be the mediator in their relationship, it puts an unfair pressure on you, especially considering the girlfriends reaction of you "choosing sides". When you see there is something going on in a friends relationship, you could instead talk to the individual who is doing what concerned you. Talk to them about it and your concerns, and let them explain their side. If it seems to be something problematic you could encourage them to find alternative ways to handle their concerns or troubles, and/or talk to their partner about what's going on for them. I'm sorry that this situation happened, I hope things will be okay.
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