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I have been dating this guy for a little over 7 months now. Growing up, I've never been romantically pursued by anyone so he is my very first serious relationship.
He lived with 7 guys and 1 girl (who was dating one of the 7 guys). Sadly, the girl's boyfriend tragically passed away which devastated all of us. Through it all, my boyfriend took on all tasks he could like contacting his friends and family and arranging for his body to be sent back to his home country. However, something I have now just started to notice is that my boyfriend and the girlfriend has gotten very very close over time. She calls him almost everyday and he drops all he can to help her with anything. I didn't mind it at first because I saw how heartbroken she has been and still is. I'm not really sure if it is just my boyfriend she has been calling like this or with the other guys in the house too.
With all the stress, sadness, anger, and worries after the guy's death, my boyfriend would rant to me. Saying how the girlfriend is doing this and that which is angering him. But the next day, they are good again and he is extremely soft to her.... as if he wasn't full-on ranting to me about her the day before. This has really sunken my heart because I just don't know how I should feel now. About her, about him, about them together, or about our relationship as a couple.
Today he told me that she will be living in the house with the guys again, which I don't really mind aside from the fact that I worry about how it's going to change my boyfriend. She has a lot of family and friends who use drugs and do quite a few shady things. Now that she has gotten close to my boyfriend, I know they will be doing a lot of things together especially now that she will continue to live with them.
I feel my heart preparing to be broken. I have this feeling and thought at the back of my head saying to get myself ready to be hurt. At the same time, I feel so awful feeling this way because both my friend and that other girl lost someone so important in their lives.
I'm just an outsider.
I would talk to him about this... but he is already going through so much. I feel that our relationship is just a burden.
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