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I hate myself for caring too much. I am what you would call an empath, I cant help but care too fucking much about other people even if those people wont care for me the same way. And I’ve always know this fact to be honest, but for some reason I’m always feeling dread and disappointment when I dont get reciprocated especially with kindness. I always try to be kind to other people but it gets tiring when you are the only one doing it. Makes me hate everything then so I cry a lot and then I feel for others again and the cycle continues. It’s exhausting. Why do I care too much when people don’t take me seriously? Like why should I care that they dont take me seriously? They are supposedly nothing to me. I’m not even related to these people. So why do care too much?
I try to be a good person as much as I can, but being too nice is bad I guess? People will take you for granted because you’re too nice. They will think that you will still be nice even if they fuck you over and if you are really mad they fucking laugh at you. It’s fucking rude and insulting. Anyway I cared too much again. I live by the principle that you should treat others how you would want others to treat you but based on experience this is not true. Treat others nicely and they stomp in you then spit in you for good measure. I’m empathetic to other people’s feelings but because of this I end up putting their needs before mine and it’s wreaking havoc inside of me.
How do I not be like this? I want to be good but fuck the world is hostile to good people. Or atleast in the environment I’m in. Makes me hate myself for feeling this way. But this is how I feel.
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Don't change who you are. I'm an empathetic person also and people like those are so draining. Just because they're a crappy human doesn't mean you have to be. You just have learn to set boundaries and not let toxic people get the best of you. It's hard I know. I've experienced this so much and I understand where you're coming from seems there's more bad people than good in the world. Sadly you gotta learn to cut people like that off and not associate with them if they keep acting like that. I don't know why some people are like that. If you be nice to me I'll be nice to you in return plain and simple. Defend yourself where necessary but don't change who you are.
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