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My husband and I have had a huge fight. We were screaming and crying; I was going to leave. I am just so sick of him going on his phone. I feel like taking the phone and smashing his head in with it. He always has an excuse for why he is on his phone but I always know when he's full of sh*t. Whenever I get angry and confront him about it, he tries to make these stupid excuses and I just tell him he's only lying to himself. He usually tries to get in my face and say that its not true and I warn him to get away and don't touch me and just leave me alone but he doesn't. This is what really makes me very angry. He doesn't respect when I am getting very wound up. He continues trying to cuddle me or get in my face and so I shove him away. Often this stuff happens when I think we are going to have a nice evening together. Why can't he just fix the phone problem. He says he does lots to show me that he loves me but he never does what I've asked of him which is just to spend time with me. I really hate him in these moments and I genuinely want him to disappear for a lot of days till I've forgotten about our problems. All I can think about him right now is "I hate you" which i told him just before when he was following me when I was trying to get away from him. It seems like this behavior is never ending and I'm starting to regret getting married. What if I am stuck with this behavior forever?? That would really suck.
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People rarely change. If you can't handle this behavior you have to tell him, and then be prepared to leave. Your hatred for him will only get worse and you may do something you really regret. Divorce is better. You can ask him to spend a dinner with you without a phone. Then make it a whole night. If he can't do this, find a divorce lawyer. Or learn to put up with it and have a shitty life. PS, there are men out there who aren't on their phones all the time.
ReplyYou're only stuck if you choose to be stuck.
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