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I love my Dad he is my influence for art, music, and culture. He showed us that normal was lame and inspired us to be smart. . .but he kind of sucks, man.
The one bothering me lately is the trauma/stress from having a very passive aggressive father. My dad would stomp floors, yell at me, and throw things to communicate when he was angry. Its an issue now because if I'm being lazy chilling on the couch, but upstairs I hear my roommate stomp his feet, I will immediately wonder what it is he wants me to do. What did I do wrong? Or, like tonight: I hang wet wash cloths on the back of the door in the bathroom. Our towel rack hasn't had a towel in it for a while. So he moved the dry wash cloth to the towel rack. No big deal right? I would sound crazy asking him if he was trying to send a message? You gotta understand, I love my Dad. But I'm looking forward to living alone so I can actually relax for once. His passive aggressive behavior sucked.
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oh my gosh my dad is just like that. I cant go outside, he will make fun of me for sitting on the couch and curse and yell and punch tables,and chooses what I can send to my friends! Although he is inspired by me and he has run a music school since I was born teaching one on one lesson with children. I think my dad is trying to change but he needs to learn to respect my privacy.
ReplyI am a dad and have a teen daughter. I try my hardest to relate to her and not be critical yet be a parent. Parenting is hard, it’s been a while sense we were in your shoes. Please be patient as you can and know we have faults like everyone. Keep loving him.
ReplyThat's not passive. That's crybabyish. Baby's throw tantrums. I don't think he's totally mature. I understand my dad is alot the same way.
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