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I was in a very toxic relationship that made me build up many walls...and now I'm in a relationship with someone I liked way before I started dating my ex about 3 years ago and never told him but it ended up being mutual so now he's my boyfriend he's so sweet and treats me like a queen the only problem is that he says I'm too cold and I don't show him enough affection he told me many times about this but I couldn't fix it cause I'm shy + I'm traumatized from my last relationship so this is the best I got...today we had an argument about this and he was really upset with me for this reason he even told me that he needed space (we've been dating for 4 months and he never asked me for space) I can't stop crying he's literally the love of my life what if he decides to break up with me for this reason ??? I'm scared please help me I can't lose him how can I fix this? Honestly he tried his best with me I can't blame him but I don't wanna lose him I swear I'll NEVER love again 💔🥺
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If you really loved him that much, why not show it to him. Afterall that is what he has been asking you from day one. He needed space because you were so cold to him. He felt unappreciated and unvalued. If you don't want to lose him, show to him how much he means to you. Tell him about your trust issues and if he loves you, he'll understand and would do his best for you not to feel those trust issues again.
ReplyHi there, Just know that these arguments he's having is his concern for you. He wants you to do what's best for the relationship, ask him, "How can WE fix this?" show him that you are willing to make a difference for you're relationship, if you think its too hard to be more soft tell him that it will take time for you to soften up to him. But let him know that you do love him and are ready to do what's best for your relationship.
ReplySometimes a little time and space helps a lot. Just ask him how long he has in mind and if it's something you can handle then tell him you'll be there for him. Best of luck.
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