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So, a year ago I met this boy. At first, I was convinced that I did not like him... And eventually we kept talking. Of course, as cliche as it is, I started to fall for him. Hard. We talked a lot for the month of June, and we even flirted quite a bit. Then come July and August, he didn't speak to me. Not once. I couldn't bear the fact that he didn't want to talk to me first. Then towards the end of August, I confronted him. I asked him why he had lead me on, knowing that I had liked him, just to quit talking to me. That's when he asked me out.
Everything went downhill once again. That night he told me that he loved me. I panicked because we hadn't even dated twelve hours and we barely spoke before that. Not to mention it was my first time in a relationship. Then a couple weeks later, we got into an argument. It was a long distance relationship, and I didn't exactly trust him around other girls (I'm not the prettiest) and I kinda made it obvious. He then broke up with me and I was pretty upset. He then proceeded to lie about us never being together.
I'm still upset and it's almost been a year. I don't like people to know about it, but my friends don't understand this. I really liked him, and they seem to fail to comprehend this. They constantly make jokes about him, and it makes me regret saying anything. Now if I mistakenly tell them another crush, I quickly find a way to convince them that I don't.
I mean, what kind of friends joke about something that can hurt your feelings? :c
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