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I'm 14 years old have a crush on a man who is 30 years old. I'm not sure what's wrong with me. I know that I can't take action on this and that I should like boys my own age, but I just can't help it. He teaches my theatre class and he's just so..... I don't even know how to describe him. I don't know how to stop liking him this way, and I have to be in his class for an hour and 30 minutes every day. Any advice?
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You know I think it is very Normal most of us end up having a crush on our teachers. I used to have one too but as I grew older I realized he wasn't really that great of a person so that crush vanished with time and personally I think it is not a big deal to date someone older than you but that's OK when you yourself are an adult because if someone of your age starts dating someone that older than you then people are going to judge you alot, both you and him are going to have a really hard time and by his age maybe he is already married. So just keep control on your self and don't get away with those feelings, just remind yourself he could probably be your uncle lol I mean just start to think some strange relationship with him like an older brother or someone who is of your father age that way you would get weird feeling just by thing about him as a crush but it might eventually fade . So just stay strong 💜
ReplyEvery boy or girl etc has a thing for a teacher. It happens to most everyone. But it passes. I liked a couple of mine. But it passed with time. Just focus on your work because it's just fantasy. You couldnt have them if you wanted them in reality. If they did theyd become a pedophile and that becomes criminal. Focus on finding someone in your age range also. You'll only have that teacher what maybe once then that's it
ReplyNothing wrong with having a crush. So many times in school where I had a crush on a teacher! You know yourself that nothing will ever happen between you which is fine. You're still very young to think about a crush to be anything more than a crush! Just enjoy being young and giggle away with your friends :)
Replyits totally normal to have a crush on a teacher , no matter what many say everyone have been in the situation. If you feel this will become a problem, maybe try to avoid talking about him or bring him in a conversation or even thinking about him, it helps to think about them less when there not in your conversation 24/7, but obviously feeling attraction towards someone wont change and thats totally normal to feel attraction for a person. The only question is how will you react or act. But from what i think, i think you're okay. You got this, things will get better!
ReplyHello.
Just a word of caution. Should you say anything to a friend or someone hear you from an earshot away and say something to someone else, can bring on legal troubles for him, but also big peer problems for you. Just the mention from you can be a catalyst for a lifetime of trouble. Just be careful. There is nothing wrong with love and infatuation, but that’s for the adult world, therefore I recommend you graduate high school first, turn 18 and then make it known to him of your feelings.
Concerned for you…
Best, Harleyrider
ReplyIf every teacher faced legal troubles every time a student had a crush on them we wouldn't have any teachers left. Even if his bosses found out a student had a crush on him that wouldn't cause problems for him. Most teacher actually know who has crushes on them and just like teenagers do they talk and laugh about it when they are all together. Now pursuing it yes, that would be harmful, but having a crush on a teacher can do know harm to his reputation or more importantly his job.
ReplyI had a crush on my teacher when I was fourteen too, trust me these feelings go away as time passes by. I am currently a middle school teacher, I've had students have crushes on me too, and they always grow out of it. This usually happens because you finally found an adult to understands you and doesn't really reprimand you, that can be very attractive. Enjoy the feeling of love, but know that it is just admiration, nothing else.
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