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So there’s this guy. We met a year ago and dated for six months, until he broke up with me saying that he just needed a break and do focus on himself, which he did and I respect that. He was stressed and we both needed time. Then we started dating others..
When we were together, I saw 11’s all the time, we even started counting and it was amazing how many other weird coincidences we had through our journey. I had a ton of weird dreams on top of that and we looked up the meanings, most of it was Twin Flame connections and we were very curious but didn’t take it too seriously.
But after we broke up, I haven’t seen any signs or 11’s or had any coincidences since. And all the other dates I’ve gone on with other guys just doesn’t go anywhere. It all just doesn’t feel real anymore with other people. He said the same thing about me too, but he keeps going out with others. Being with him made me feel like I was floating on air. We could literally do anything and the time would speed by. Nothing in the world would matter except for each other, and I lived so truly and utterly in the moment. It was like a movie every single step of the way and I wish I could go back.
I think I still love him? I would do anything for him, even if it means he’s happy without me. I care about him still, after six months of not being together, more than anyone in this world. I just wish I had some answers, you know?
Any advice or comments is so appreciated
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Do you still talk? If so, you need to have an honest conversation and ask those hard questions. If you are no longer in contact, you can attempt to reach out, being straightforward with why you are, for answers, to know if you all have a chance. If he broke up with you and is seeing other girls, it sounds like he has moved on. That desire for answers, can become very intense and drain you for years. After considering the above, you may think about accepting that the answers may never come. I am not saying it is easy to move on, easy to find another special connection, or that you should move on, but I do know another special connection is out there and possible. You have to be ready and open to finding it, however. You said nothing feels real any more. That statement is the one that reaches me the most. Are you depressed or suicidal? Please reach out to a therapist or counselor who can help you as you work through these thoughts and feelings. Thank you for being brave enough to post your feelings and not keep them inside you.
ReplyI feel i can relate to you in a way, i met this boy about 10 months ago now and right after he started texting me at angel numbers, or seeing my name on streets. he has a gf now, and i was dating someone else for the last few months. lately i have been thinking a lot about him and about how even tho things ended for bigger circumstances, he has been the only guy i feel i could really understand me. he's been the one im most compatible with (astrology speaking, but also irl).
my question for you would be, do u think youre looking for closure or for a second chance?
i talked to my guy back in december. i sent him an email telling him about my feelings after everything went down between us, and to read what he had to say and how he had also felt helped me so much. i feel like i got the answers i was looking for. even tho i find myself missing that friendship with him now, im at peace with the situation. maybe thats what you need.
or maybe youre holding on onto the fact that you guys will get back together. if that is the reason then i would advice you to maybe clear things up with him. lit straight up ask him how he feels about you and if he sees u guys together in the future. if u dont wanna do that its fine, but do have in mind that the longer you let this keep going the more awful you'll feel. if it's a twin flame connection, it's probably meant to teach you something and that's it. i believe that is the difference between soulmate and twin flame. but also, if hes not telling u anything and keeps dating other people maybe hes just not ready for someone like you, and it is not your responsibility to wait until he is.
hope my comment helped even a little :)) sending love xx
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