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guys i need help. like we've been snapping and stuff and like we see each other every sunday and maybe during the weekend, but like ive tried talking to him. like what should i do? like HOW DO YOU START THE CONVO
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i meant during the weekday
ReplyJust say, "Hi how are ya going?" and if he answers ask him has he been doing anything interesting and tell him something of what you have been doing.
Replygo go go dont think it very much! There's only one way to make it work, by experience, do not wait for things to happen magically !! I talked to this guy i liked A LOT for MONTHSSS, then one day he came asking me "why you just dont say it?" and I was like "huh", he replied "cmon, spill it" MAN I ALMOST DIEDDD hahaha then I told him what I felt, guess what, the wait was totally worth it cuz he liked me back too :) The thing is, even if you are shy like me, you can do it. Will you see him tomorrow? If yes, go to him when he's alone and start with a hi!, finally friday huh just be yourself , super cliché but thats actually the only way. btww i would love to hear more updates so, I'll be here waiting for a replyy good luck!!! ; )
ReplyAHHH i see him tom. IM SNAPPING HIM RIGHT NOW. i might ask him like how did his day go or something like that. I JUST DONT WANT TO SEEM WEIRD GOING UP TO HIM AND TALKING TO HIM. LIKE IM SCARED OF BEING AWKWARD.
Replyomg okay LMAO IF I LIKE UPDATE YOU EVERY FIVE MINUTES I AM SO SORRY. BUT I ASKED HIM HOW HIS DAY WAS AND IM FUCKING LIKE FREAKING OUT AHHH.
ReplyAND WHAT DID HE SAYYY ??!! WHAT WERE YOU FEELING AAAAHH IM SO PROUD OF UUU<33
ReplyLMAO THIS GUY IS SO WEIRD, but like we were joking about how we both were in fourth grade and like how he MADE FUN OF ME ALL THE TIME. and then when i asked how his day was he was like "wow so we're friends". UGH AND I SAW HIM YESTERDAY AND I WASN'T BEING AWKWARD OR ANYTHING BUT I WAS GOING TO TLAK TO HIM BUT THEN I DIDN'T AND NOW I MISSED MY CHANCE
ReplyI think weirdness is attractive to a certain point, domt u? what if he's just showin u his funny side?
theres no need to talk to him every single day hahahah u actully did the hardest step which was "the first convo" so dont panik every time u think u
"missed a chance"!! YOU GOT THISSS
Replyum so we've been talking for about like 2 weeks now and what ive learned over the past 2 weeks is that he is still stuck on his ex. he def has an emotional attachment to her. he says that he likes me a lot but he has some how has a way of bringing up "past relationships". ugh i really like him or the idea, the idea of liking someone and someone liking me. i want to get to know him better but he just has a way of always bringing back his past relationships. he doesn't do it all the time but i know he still likes her. When I asked him about her, if he still likes her, he was like I have feelings for her to an extent, but I don't think about her anymore. And from that like you know he still likes her. And like i understand that he can't control his feelings, but at this point, i feel like hes just leading me on. It kinda hurts cuz this is the second time this has happened to me and im just tired.
Replysorry if that was long
Replyno need to say sorry haha
well, as u pointed very well, its true he can't control his feelings yet his thoughts, everyone needs their own time to heal. When someone would "get over their ex" in like days, others would need months, maybe years. You guys been talking for a couple of weeks now, instead of focusing your thoughts whether if he still likes or not his ex, make him forget her!
for now, try not to ask much about the past, and if he somehow mentions her, dont be too harsh, as far as I know you both not dating (yet), so try to be a friend first. You look like someone really nice to be a friend with, make him feel comfortable around you, and let him know he can be vulnerable in your company, he'd prolly open up more.
Wish u the best!! <33
Replyheyy, we've been talking and maybe im jsut impatient idk, but its like awkward LMAOO like im always initiating everything. he never starts the convo sometimes on texts but in person no. im always approaching him. i feel like i look desperate. and i like talking to him, but i feel like i listen to him more than he listens to me.
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