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I am a college student and I work 2 part time jobs. I work to try to support my parents and brother. I am the youngest and I have a brother. My brother just sits at home and play game the whole day. He does not help with any housework at all. But if I don't help with housework, I get scolding. I feel it's unfair and I mentioned it to my parents many times but they defend my brother instead. I get scolding for mentioning that I everytime have to do housework while he just do nothing at home. They say that if I don't want to do housework then I no need to do. They say like that but they scold me for not helping out with housework. Why life so unfair? Am I just a slave in the family? Isn't it the least he can do is help out with housework as I have to study and work?
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He should be told to help as it isn't any good for him to play video games all the time. He should be in school or at work according to his age. Maybe your parents are training you so that you keep a clean and tidy house for your husband when you grow up.
ReplyYeah but my parents don't tell him to stop playing video games or to find a job. He is not a streamer or anything but last year they wanted to buy him a gaming laptop for his birthday. In the end, they bought a normal laptop because a gaming laptop was over the budget and the shop did not have gaming laptop in stock. All they think is about him, I have never bought a laptop for myself or receive a new laptop. The laptop that I am using is hand-me-down from my brother. I do understand that hand-me-down from older to younger is normal but I didn't even get any present for my birthday in years. Yes, I am earning money but sometimes I deserve to be appreciated by my family too right? I work to support my family but all my brother does is chill as if money falls from the sky. I don't mind getting early training in house cleaning but I don't think I can handle it anymore with the unfairness plus I do get exhausted at times after coming back from work. During marriage, I believe both spouses will have their responsibility in cleaning up the house and not just let the girls do house chores so he should also learn how to clean the house too. I'm sorry if our opinions are different.
ReplyI hope this situation has improved for you. In my life I am the oldest of 5 and my 3 youngest siblings do nothing. They don’t work, study or do any house chores. When I turned 19 it was obvious to me that I would be stuck supporting a bunch of toxic lazy people so I saved enough money and moved out. Since then they have been homeless twice now and continue to try to live off of people. Not saying your family or situation is the same but I have been a much happier person since I decided to leave home and live my own life.
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