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not real. i’ve never had a real crush. it’s just someone who i would say in a game of truth or dare because i had to answer. i’m asexual i know that but i’m not sure about my romantic feelings towards people. i just haven’t felt anything big enough that i felt it meant something. oh and don’t get me started when i tell people i’m ace they’re so quick to go like oh so you’re like going to be with no one but they don’t just mean sexually they mean like at all and then i have to explain to them that i feel romantic and sensual attraction but just not sexual there’s a difference i don’t think i’m acearo and if it turns out i am then that’s fine. and the number of people who tell me oh you’re just picky or you’re too young or you haven’t meant the right person yet but im sorry if i came out as a lesbian you would jump around and hug me and imagine if they say oh you just haven’t found the right man yet then people would be calling them out for homophobia and shit but i can’t call people out on aphobia because people never know that what they say is rude and hurtful like i’ve cried so much about me trying to figure out my sexuality why can’t you be happy for me it makes me feel so much worse when you just think i’m going to out grow it. another thing if i do one day feel sexual attraction or become a sexual person i’m not going to look back on me being 15 and think damn she was so stupid i can look back and say i was a very happy asexual girl because that’s who 15 year old me is i don’t know if 16 year old me is sexual and if she is she is more than welcome to be i just want people to know and understand that just because i say i’m ace doesn’t mean i’m sad or lonely at the fact i’m ace. it dosent mean that i’m just not old enough to fully understand sexual relationships or attraction yet and it dose not mean that i’m never going to feel sexual attraction in my life or be in a relationship with someone because believe or not not all romantic relationships revolve only on sexual relationships! i am so happy that i am asexual at this moment in my life like it does make me happy i don’t know if i’ll forever identify as asexual but right now i do and i’m happy i do. I AM A HAPPY ASEXUAL GIRL!!!!!!! WHO DOSENT FEEL THAT I WILL REJECT THE FEELING OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION AND THAT I WILL ACCEPT IT IF IT COMES OR EVEN IF IT DOSENT!!!! I AM HAPPY WITH MY SEXUALITY!!! LOOK OUT NORWAY!!!
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