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I just want to know what I should tell her, because I’m getting kind of fed up. She always comes to me with her issues or problems, I give her my time, and genuine advice, I’m aware of what I set on the table for her. I’m in 8th grade, and I’m 13 years old, she’s been my friend ever since.
Back then we had a discussion of me feeling drained or exhausted, since she always came to me with her friend issues, and what to say, and how to resolve them, she left me feeling as if I had just ran a mile run. Exhausted. I don’t blame her, since she never knows how to communicate with others, or how to be aware of others feelings, and true intentions. She’s smarter then me, but only logically. So I suppose we balance each other out. The issue is, is that why does she always ask for my opinion? Why not somebody else, I’m not no doll you just come and talk to whenever you care to, we don’t even have conversations unless it’s about her friends, or where they are going and stuff, and of course that puts me in a bad mood, since she doesn’t have to brag about going somewhere with her friends, of course I only wish the best for her, but it angers me.
I give her the best of advice, which no other friend of hers, would ever dare to do, yet I’m the least of her options, she can’t even talk to me, like how we used to, before she had so many friends. It was better then. I don’t get why she has many friends if she can’t deal with one of them. We’ve talked about this issue already, yet she managed to slip in extras, any advice on what to tell her the next time she does this?
Ps: she’s a good person, but she isn’t always aware of what she inflicts on others, until it’s too late of course, or unless someone like me tells her what she caused.. thank you for reading by the way 💞
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She comes to you because you're the one she truly trust and can run to. She may have a lot of friends, but no one can give her the feeling of comfort than you. I think you need take a little break away from her, just talk to her nicely. It can really be tiring sometimes. Let her realize things while you're away. That's just for me. I hope you get through this. Hugs.🤗
ReplyThank you for letting me see a new perspective
ReplyYou're welcome. You're really a good friend, it's not bad to take a little break if you feel you're getting fed up.
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Replyim sorry but you're no therapist. especially at such a young age, you shouldn't have to deal with everyone's shitty little problems. like im sorry but you need a longgggg break. you can't be the therapist in every situation, of course it is expected that friends help each other out but come on. that shit gets exhausting damn. and she brahs about her friends? maybe its to make you jealous? either way yrah go ahead talk about whatever you want but like the same thing over and over and over again chewing ur ear off about it 100000% must get very boring. you're not to blame i totally get you.
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