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as you can probably tell by the title, i'm a little bit lost. i used to love this girl so much and sometimes i think i still love her, but then i remember i'm just mentally ill and very lonely lol. the thing is, though, that me and this girl are very close friends so i feel 100 percent comfortable with saying i love you. today was the first time i said it because i felt as though she has been going through a rough patch. when she responded to my text, she didn't directly say i love you but instead said "you too." i really don't know how to feel about this. i thought we were close enough to the point where she could say it back, but maybe she just doesn't feel comfortable? i don't know i'm just really confused right now. should i stop overthinking this? is this not worth overthinking at all?
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Sorry dude. Sounds like you got friendzoned
Replyi don't want to be more than friends w her i just don't know why she can't say love you back as friends yk?
ReplyIβd day itβs a mixture of not comfortable enough and just to avoid confusion. You know, setting a clear boundary.
ReplyI think it was sweet of you to say that to comfort her. I get a little squirmish when people say I love you to me so I just say something like "you too" most of the time. Maybe she's that way too? Anyway, you shouldn't overthink it, even if it seems easy to do so. If it would help you feel better you could ask her about it later. Something like "did that make you uncomfortable? ...sorry" etc (obviously in a more natural way then that lol u get the point). It doesn't have to be a big deal so don't let it bother you. And just because she didn't say it word for word back doesn't mean she was uncomfortable or anything.
Replyoh my gosh my nerves have been killed. thank you so so much <3
ReplyYou're welcome! ππ
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