What does a non abusive feels like?

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• Novni Guest · 2 years ago

  It’s just a sense of calm boredness in a way. Not being afraid, not feeling forced or having to keep giving yourself to support them till your worn. It’s about it being reciprocated, not having small things being blown up and about communicating with one another to work things out rather than do silent treatments, guilt trip or hitting out in anger. It’s feeling safe to the point where you go “is there something going on?” When there’s nothing actually happening. It’s about the staying even after the honeymoon passion stage and slipping into each other’s company like a comfortable pair of pj’s. it’s knowing they have your back and you have theirs. It’s about the little things you do for each other without any thoughts or saving it up to collect for another day. You love them and it’s a love that’s reliable and gives you strength. It’s also about loving them through their changes; falling in love with the version that they are now and what they’ll become. It’s sticking through the tougher times as a team instead of dragging them along or soloing it. You are also your own person, the love you have doesn’t consume you and become your very centre, rather compliments and improves you. That’s what I define a healthy relationship is.

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• Novni Guest · 2 years ago

  Your explanation is really amazing

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