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So I have posted here before about my boyfriend being with his cousins and when he is with them he completely forgets about me and we don't talk the way we usually do ... he goes to meet them atleast once in year during festival time and on other family occasions... they have really great bonding (unlike my family) and they love to spend more and more time with each other ... but something is really wrong with me I am getting irritated because he acts this way Each time he is with them and if it was for a day I could bear it but it I for like a week mostly... I should've gotten used to it by now but I can't . I feel horrible right now because I feel like I am being an attention sucker ... but I don't know how do I stop feeling this way , he is the only one I have with whom I can share my thoughts with and feel at ease... I always make sure to check on him even when I am trips but it's like he has forgets about me ... Maybe I am getting obsessed with him .. I should understand he has his life other than me but I am not able to get hold of my feelings ( am an HSP) ... what do I do .. I am feeling sad about something I shouldn't be ... how do I stop feeling this way ..I would appreciate if you have anything to say to me ..
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Whatever a HSP is, maybe a Hot Spicy Person. Anyway, you need to talk about this with your bf and explain how you feel. Perhaps suggest that he takes you with him next time he goes off with his cousins so that you don't feel so sad and alone.
ReplyHSP is Highly sensitive person , it's a personality type in short I am more emotional types 😂 ... and about talking to him I have actually done that several times but it doesn't really makes any difference... I can't go with him since are families are not aware about our relationship ( which is kinda normal since I am Asian) so now I don't know what to do ... I am kinda thinking like just not using my phone until he comes back so that I won't miss him or wait for his texts but then there are chances he might think I am not talking to him because he is with his cousins and today we had a conversation about it and it led me to nowhere ... so Don't know if that would make things worse 😬
ReplyI guess you described your problem and remedy yourself. You need to find more people around you with whom you could talk and share and understand. Unfortunately that is not easy. I pretty much do not have friends either. But Iam kinda blessed in this, so far I still do have part of my family that is amazing, for how long do not know yet.
Good luck and hope that all lonely novni people could be in touch to understand help and support each other.
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