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Am I wrong for being angry at my mom
2 years ago · 2
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I’m a 31-year-old female who went through a lot and just a short lifetime when I was young growing up going to school my mom who did not understand at the time what was going on used Physically abuse me for my learning disability which is dyslexia and for the longest time till probably high school when all my learning troubles went away I used to get physically and mentally abused by my mother and for a short time by an aunt which now that I’m an adult unfortunately caused some problems from all the abuse to which I have brain damage that causes seizures no it is not 100% certain that it’s from the abuse but I do have Old scarring on my brain which my doctors think it’s from the physical abuse and now that I have seizures and I’m getting My answers from what is going on since I was 25 when I had my first big seizure the newest doctor I’m seeing is telling me it’s most likely from the scarring in my brain and now that I’m older my mom and I have a good relationship and I share everything with her especially my medical information with and that includes telling her that the abuse that she put on me when I was a child cause damage and it’s causing most of the problems but I’m kind of mad at her not at abuse at this point but that she is saying that she can’t forgive herself if that is true what the doctor is saying and I’m sitting here like really you can’t forgive yourself while I’m here dealing with mental and health problems from all that you have put me through throughout all these years so am I wrong for being mad at her for that what I’m thinking is you don’t get to be mad at that when I’m the one that really went through it all
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She is turning this onto herself so that she is the one who is wronged instead of you. Tell her that you know what she is up to and it won't work as you can see right through her.
ReplyYeah my mom mentally abused me and i developed multiple personality disorder but i don't hate her for what she did. Of course if you think she gave me a permanent disease why am i not angry because i don't want to be like her.
In your case even if you get angry on her nothing will change you got this things and can't be reversed now,i am not supporting your mom but telling you it's not worth it because she won't realize what she actually did to you.
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