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Sex…never again, at least not until am mature and stable
10 months ago · 3 · Stress, +2 · Explicit
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My gf and I decided to take our relationship to next level
We started with smooch and ended up doing sex
If tho I pulled out in time
After going through internet I found that even one drop of semen can impregnate someone
This info scared both me and my gf
We are barley adults
We still doing our education
We got no jobs
How am I supposed to manage a baby
Thankfully I was able to give her an ECP within 48 hour
Even tho chance of pregnancy are too low now
Am still scared
I just to get out of this mess
Back to good old days when everything was normal and make sense
We did sex near her ovulation days that’s why am so scared
I just hope we both don’t get in any trouble
In my country
Pharmacy shops try not to sell condoms and pills to youngsters
That’s why I was unable to buy one
Even getting ecp without being judged was very difficult for me
Nothing but lame eyes of people who knew nothing about me or my problems
Am done with this shit
I just hope she gets her periods
As per her there’s still 2 weeks for that
Till then
I can’t even breathe normally
Idk stress is too high
Plus my exams are going on
Fuck exams, I want peace rn
I can’t skip them
But Still I gave 2 of them without studying
Am fucking failing those exams
With one activity
My life is so messed up
Am done with sex
Am not doing it until I think am mature enough to handle the consequences
Sorry about grammar
English is not my first language
Just came here to write my story
In hope I’ll feel better
….there’s no difference till now
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People want to have sex because it feels good. Sex can lead to pregnancy but most folks aren't having sex for that purpose. They just want the "feel good" part, not the "baby" part.
Having said that, it's important to note that people are having sex all the time without having babies. There are too many ways you two can enjoy each other, in a physical manner, that won't lead to pregnancy.
You could stick to toys, oral, or some types of masturbation. If you really want the intercourse, just make sure to use protection. It sounds like, where you are, it may be very difficult to get protection, like condoms. It may be difficult but, is there a way? Even if it's difficult, it could be worth your trouble. If you have that opportunity, just get a bunch at one time so you don't have to deal with the trouble of getting them for quite some time.
For now, you're stressed and thinking you won't be having sex for a long, long time. I bet, once these tests are over and you find out she's not pregnant, you'll be ready for another round of that activity. Better to be prepared.
I'm not a Dr. so can't speak to the odds of you two being pregnant or not but I understand your concern. At this point, there is nothing more you can do but wait a bit to see what her body does and, if she thinks in a few weeks that she could be pregnant, she'll need to take a pregnancy test. Until then, know there is nothing more you can do so focus on the other areas of your life, like the schooling, until you have an answer.
Having a child can be tough, but it doesn't have to be. Either way, it's probably ok for you to not worry about such things until you know she's pregnant. You may be getting upset over a pregnancy that may not be real.
If you have friends, try getting out with them so you can take your mind off things and relax a bit. Sounds like you need a break.
Good Luck!
ReplyGood luck, i hope the situation will be in your favour
ReplyWell if this makes you feel any better I've been married for fifteen years and I've never been pregnant. 🤷♀️
Can't say it won't happen but ovulation is complicated my friend. Some women just aren't that fertile. The fact that people even exist is a damn miracle. I wish you luck.
Even if it turns out that you're girlfriend is pregnant, there are options out there; Plan B, adoption, parenting, or whatever you and she believe is best.
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