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Last year october I got a little crush on a coworker when he joined our company.
Long story short, he annoyed me long enough until I developed a crush on him and when he got attention and knew about everything and how the company works, he acted cold again as if he never knew me.
In December we all got send to home office and now In April we are all going back to the office again. In the meantime he basically showed me very clearly that he doesn't want any contact with me, which is fine for me..don't get me wrong, I snapped out of my feelings quite fast and I'm very neutral about him since I had some months to free my mind and I know I'm not sitting near him...
But I'm afraid that if I see him now again in the Office, everything I've been working on, is going to fall apart again...I feel weird about it because I don't want to act different around him, I just want to be able to ignore him and be just as cold to him as he is to me. I know it sounds kinda childish...but I want to be seen as confident by everyone and that I changed in the meantime, but I don't know how...
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Don't look at him and certainly don't make eye contact with him. If you happen to look in his direction look at everything or everyone around him except him. If he is with someone and you happen to look at the one he is with if you can give this one a friendly smile and glance over him as if he is dirt on your shoe. Make sure you give him the cold shoulder as much as he gave it to you. If he is ever in your line of sight give him a cold glare or even a dirty look if you want.
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