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My story,
I was looking into a serious relationship and beyond if everywhere it's a yes, wanted to move for marriage. Never had relationship in my past and wanted to just concentrate on my carrier. When I decided to ready for a relationship, started with dating apps as suggested by friends, but started getting only for hookups and casual, started ignoring all and started getting annoyed day by day, I was almost lost hope in that and was about to delete all the profiles permanently.
But one fine day, got a special request and accepted it.
Exchanged our social media accounts to interact with, we wanted to know each other better. The casual chats and interests were really getting interesting day by day and trust me, I started liking at this girl and that too I took 2 weeks to get know about her and wanted to meet her in person.
Even she was ok with that, the interesting part was, we never had any video calls or long conversations calls daily. One day we met and the conversation started really nice, we agreed to go home and settle.
She had a really 4 months of bad past and I agreed for it and wanted to accept her the present and wanted to create our future.
Day by day our relationship got serious and expressed our love to each other and wanted to get marry, but she wanted to me get the opinion from my family first. I agreed and I took it finally. It's been 2 months after our relationship.
Things started worse after this, she wanted to go for a party with her old friend, when I was not there in the home town, I agreed because for her happiness. She went and started me ignoring and even though I was in outstation ,she least bothered to message me.
But I controlled everything throughout my patience, had a normal conversation. Next day in the morning,
she wanted to start with irregular conversation and certain point of time I lost my patience level, started asking who was there with you in the party and why didn't you go back to your house, she started telling, this is not gona happen and you're doubting on me, It will gona create distance and she disconnected the call.
I called her back and asked what I'm supposed to tell in my house, she really didn't bothered and started telling, it's done between us and don't wana continue, was really in shock and wanted to discuss with her, what options we've and what she trying to do, she was in the same page and disconnected the call.
I sent her the message, "it was soo easy for you to do this and end this up relationship when our family got involved". And I blocked her everywhere.
After doing this and after realizing that she never gona come back, got a panic attack and got admitted to the hospital. Came back from there and unblocked her everywhere, because I still wanted to sort this out and never wanted to loose her anymore.
Next day, I went back to the home town, straight from the airport to her house, she was acting normal like nothing happened, I pleased, said sorry, showed my tears, but she doesn't wanted to accept me back.
This cycle happened for a week, after a week on her birthday night, gave her the gifts and hand sketch portrait made by me of her, she was not at all showing interest and kept all the things aside and kicked me out of her house.
But still had some hope and wished for her birthday, still no response.
Though I thought, she need some time and to come out of it let her leave aline for some time.
After her birthday celebration and weekends, I called her back, still she was in the same page, she doesn't wanted me in her life again. And blocked me completely everywhere, closed all the doors for me.
All I can say is, I needed a love and a person who understands me well, but never thought of being ignored or get kicked by from a house.
But still don't know, it's been a week now and 2 weeks after the incident, she never looked back and still I'm waiting for her path..
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