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okay , so my boyfriend hates that i talk too much to random guys.....i guess its normal i mean leave this
the thing is yesterday one of my old classmates texted me i love you and then he wrote april fools' .......i was not gonna tell my boyfriend this but it just slipped out of my mind and now he is really angry at me...
the thing is this classmate used to flirt with me before and my boyfriend told me not to talk to him , i stopped talking to him i swear he just sent me that out of the blue....
we had fights because of this guy twice and the last time we had a fight he was angry at me for two straight weeks and that was pathetic i dont want that to happen again.....i love him , i have been apologizing to him since morning and he isn't listening
i dont wanna lose him or something.......
what shall i do.
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If you really love him, then tell the other guy that you can't talk to him anymore because it's not cool to your bf. I'm guessing your bf expects you to blow off anyone who puts the moves on you, so when you encourage them by being friendly, it looks like (to your bf) that you don't care about your relationship.
I know it's tough cutting ties with people in your past, but if it's someone you had a history with, or someone who likes you (like the other guy clearly does), then you gotta cut them loose for the sake of making your current partner happy.
I used to keep in touch with all my exes and joke & be flirty, but as soon as I got a serious partner I saw how that would be kinda rude so I had to cut all ties to my past. Sucks for us, but it's one of those things you gotta do to make your current relationship stronger ...if it means that much to you. If not, you might want to consider breaking up so you can be free to have fun.
Replytalk to your bf about how if your gonna be in a healthy relationship you guys need to trust each other, if you see yourself with him in the future then it should be worth it
ReplyThe fact you are walking on eggshells is concerning. First, tell the other person to stop with the flirtatious behavior or block them. It's obviously making you uncomfortable. Second, it's fine to need space after a falling out, but to completely ignore you to the point that you are now experiencing anxiety is not cool. Leave your BF alone and let him get over it. Block the other person, then go watch a good movie or spend time with friends.
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