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i just need some honest advice. i have a friend who i’ve been talking to for a few months. we’ve become pretty close and talking to them is fun and all. but i feel like they only talk to me when they’re bored and i’m their last priority and i feel bad :/
i don’t have a lot of friends rn and i’m not really in the position to make any new friends so it hurts when this stuff happens. i keep telling myself it’s ok it doesn’t matter but honestly it really does and i feel soososso bad. idk what to do
what do u think i should do??
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try talking to ur friend about it...thats what friends are for. maybe its just some misunderstanding. if they really do consider u as a friends im sure they care about u n would'nt want u to be sad :)
ReplyI made a mistake and chose to say it was ok, if they keep you as their lowest priority, that isn't what you call a friend, friends are suppose to care and if your feeling bad then end it, don't try and save it, its better if you create a connection that's perfect and tight, one that wont fall or break no matter how many challenges the connection faces. That is only my opinion others might think different.
Replyum firstly dont overthink and stress yourself , this stuff happens and if i were in your place i would have really really confronted them becuase if they were a true friend that would understand your thoughts and would assure you comfort you and put efforts as much as you put in this friendship. i hope this helps<3
ReplyYou just said it is fun. Why do you care about your friend’s priorities, they are their priorities, not yours. You have no right to believe you know better than them and that you are the one they should be dealing with first. Maybe they have important family things to tend to or are in a situation where it’s not possible to think of you first. Don’t be selfish, and have fun. Also, if your friend is of the ‘always unhappy’ type, you might not want to be their priority because they will throw hurt and chaos in the face of the people most close to them because life is about drama to them.
ReplyHmmmmm. I have some strong feelings about this, hear me out. Maybe your friend just doesn't always want to start the conversation if they are always the one to do it. Speaking from personal experiences. Because if you never start the conversation, maybe your friend will just keep talking to you only when they are bored. But I would try to talk to your friend about it and ask them. Let them share their feelings and you can share yours.
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