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hi! I just want to vent things that I have been supressing for a long time. Since high school my sister was always a problem in our family. She joined gangs, skipped classes, and do activities that gets her and my parents in trouble. When she got in college, she always asks money from our parents, telling them that she needs it for her school projects. But she only used it for leisure. One day, she showed me a tiny piece of device, written there was "Pregnancy Test". Yes, she got pregnant by her boyfriend. She never informed our parents about it, and I kept quiet because I want her to tell them by herself. After a few months, our parents found out and it stressed them so much because we are not financially stable to have another member of the family. But they still helped her through her pregnancy.
FF: She delivered the baby in a private hospital and her boyfriend doesn't even have any money to pay for the hospital bills. So they called my parents again and borrowed money from them, but never returned it. My parents decided to let my sister's bf live in our house so that he can help my sister in whatever she needs, including financial aid for the expenses of the baby. He has a job as an assistant of an engineer. But when it comes in providing for the baby's needs, he always asks money from his OFW parents. My parents had grown suspicious about my sister's bf, like where's his salary and why does he have to ask money from his parents. Everytime my mother tells my sister about it, she always get mad and warn my mother not to meddle in their relationship. Because of this, my mother and sister fought, and my sister moved out to her bf's house. Before moving out they even cursed my mother. But after a few months, my sister went back home, really skinny and stressed out about his bf having another gf from his work.
FF: My sister and her bf broke up because of the issue that was proven true. Then, my sister lived with us again.
This is what I hate about this, after all the things my sister puts my parents through. After being the blacksheep in our family and wasting my parents hard-earned money for her college tuition. After cursing and blaming my parents for us being poor as the reason why she's struggling in life... She still has the guts to live with us and asked my parents to provide for her child. And I just hate the fact that my parents don't speak up about it because they think they're still responsible for my sister. I've been supressing this for a long time because I still hope that my sister would be finally hit by the realization that her choices in life is wrong and it only caused problems to other people. But I think that won't happen anymore because now, she still is the same person from before, flirting with guys, spending money for nonsense expensive things, having the guts to blame other people for her situation, and acting like a victim.
Everytime I see her do all these things, I just want to slap her or something and yell at her. But I've been quiet about this and this situation is making me want to run away from this house. Does anyone have any advice for me, what should I do?
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