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Lately I've chosen the term Gender Fluid to identify myself, but I don't really know if it fits. I've said when telling people that its what seems to fit best because I don't know if it does really. I was thinking that Gender Fluidity is only a thing because of stereotypes and socials constructs and that if they didn't exist really then neither would 'Gender Fluid'. But then I was thinking that cis female wouldn't fit then either because I think for me it goes deeper to physicality. So if i'm not gender fluid and also not cis female, then what am i?
Well biologically I am a female with a vagina and breasts, but I don't always feel like its the body that fits best. Sometime I feel like a male body would fit perfect but other times I feel like my female body fits perfect. Therefore I do not think I am a trans man because I would not want to change my body to look more like a mans through surgery etc. I do like to dress and look like a guy sometimes but wouldn't want to change my body to one permanently. That being said, if I somehow woke up one morning in a male body instead of a female one, I can't say that I would be upset, I would be concerned as to how it happened and why, but I think I would just be in the same position as I am now, wondering what I am.
If u have any thoughts then please let me know, and if u don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all.
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don't worry about gender. Rather, think "I am a good person" and if you are, carry on
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Replytbh i think gender fluid is best fit for youu
ReplyIf you like the label and you find it comfortable, then it's fine to use it. Have you felt that at one point, you feel like a boy, and feel uncomfortable in your body, and at another point, you feel like a girl, and are completely happy with your body? That is an example of being genderfluid, though every experience may be different. This is not the only case. If you are comfortable with using genderfluid to identify yourself, and find that the label fits you the best, then go for it.
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