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This behavior have always confused me honestly. Just why do they do it? Do they do it release stress or to let the whole world know that 'insert said person here' is shit? Then proceed to use the excuse of "I didn't write their name" as a free pass to post about their problems online and use it as an excuse to say that it's fine. Since the name is not written and people won't know who it is. So it doesn't matter
I've always seen this behavior as childish and a means to run away from their responsibility. Instead of confronting the person head on. I know that this behavior is normal, I see my classmates always posting shit about another person in their status. It even happened to me.
What did I do when I saw the status? I confronted them. And what did I get in return? "Hahaha no, I wasn't talking about you lol, why are you so triggered" I gave them the benefit of the doubt because I didn't know if they were actually talking about me or someone else. But it turns out they were talking about me(they hid their status to me and another one of my friend told me about it. They were indeed shit talking me) and just wasn't brave enough to face it head on. It's easier to shit talk someone through anonimity.
Which goes back to my original question. When I confronted them, I know I used the word confront, but I wasn't trying to be agressive, I tried to be casual about it(hence the reply I got from them when I confronted them). When I confronted them, they told me it was nothing which means that the problem they have with me won't be fixed. And I have no idea what their problem with me is either so how am I supposed to fix something about myself that I don't know. I know I'm not perfect, I know I make mistakes, I get mad and angry, sad and happy, I make mistakes, I may have said things that hurts feelings. I'm human. And when people choose the method of publising the problem instead of facing it head on, it just feels like they're not letting me be a better person. They're not giving me the chance to fix myself. It's like they're happy hating on people and dragging them down lower.
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Replysome people can't handle confrontation, and some certainly can't handle any kind of disagreement whatsoever. it's immaturity. for some people, this does not change with age.
you attempted to rectify the problem. you cannot force someone to make amends. you already were the better person by trying to address the issue. you do not to do anything more. some people just want to blast their problems across the world to get support and attention. unfortunately, they are using you to do it.
i suggest giving them the space they want and deserve and never attempt to speak with them again. if they mature and finally approach you, then maybe. still, i would be cautious.
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