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I lose my job and my parents won't allow me to marry the guy I love. I couldn't make a dream about my life when I was a child. So I end up studying what I didn't want. I studied what my father wants. I love my parents. I want to make them happy. I want everyone to be happy. Why nobody cares me? I do love him. He loves me too. But why can't he show it? Why a single person on this earth does not want me to be happy??? Why always I'm the one who end up being suffered.
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Hi, about the job,Iam sorry about that. Find a job in this times might be quite a tough task, soo good luck with it.
Regards your relation. What is the reason your parents claim you could not get marries? It seems like you're quite a young person since your parents could still manage your life. Have you considered the reason why you love him? you know love over time disappears and remain just the person, so do you love the person or do you just love him?
You know if it is really your dream and you're really really sure about that, than you maybe might consider to move out from home (I expect that that is the reason why your parents have power over your decisions)
I think so your parents loves you the same as you loves them and they wants for you the best the same way as you want for yourself and for them. Difference is that they for some reason think that thought is not correct. Often it is because parents think that you're thinking irrational because you're the first person while they have ability to look at your life from 3th perspective.
I think you should really consider to talk with them, with your friends with many people to find some way out of it.
Last thought to consider: Often there are 2 disasters in our life and that is when we reach what we wanted and when we have not reach it.
Good luck
ReplyThe reason I can't get married is because of the caste system. I'm from an Asian background. I know It's silly. But my parents much more care about what relatives might say if I marry him and they worry so much.
It's been more than 2 years for us now. But I think I just love him. I'm 27 now. Sometimes I think I may have been wasting my time. I don't know. But when I try to break up with him, its getting really hard and I start to love him more.
ReplyI think you need to find people from and not from your asian background to gather as much input as possible to take a decision. That would probably be what I would have done.
If you ask me it's difficult question because it might not work in both ways. Love comes and goes most likely. While parents stay so they might make your life a bit more annoying for long time. But their choice might not work either.
This caste system is not as that silly as it looks since in western culture it exists as well. But it is more represented by the wealth.
So question should rather be is he so poor that you would have problem live together?
If you living in western countries shouldn't you follow western culture?
I think you should follow culture where you're. That to be said are you planning to go back to asia?
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