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I really Don't know anymore and it is making my life so difficult... I think I have attachment issues or whatever. If I get to know someone and they suddenly start to show interest in me I just want to distance myself from them because it makes me feel so anxious. I had a friend that I though was a really nice guy and we came along really well, I told him everything and some months ago he suddenly told me he likes me and now I'm avoiding him because I don't want him to get too attached because I don't feel the same.
And then I met another guy on Saturday and he made a move on me today and I felt the same again although I had a really nice feeling at first about him...but just as a friend.
If guys suddenly start to show further interest I just block everything and try to avoid them only so I don't feel uncomfortable. I know this is not correct and goes way further than only them not being my type but I can't control it.
The thing is I currently have a co worker I had a crush on and I'm trying to get over him because he isn't interested. Some days ago I got an idea that I maybe like him because I can't get his attention, this attachment style probably is focused on people that I seek validation from. I know this is probably not correct and that something is wrong with me but I really don't know what to do..maybe I'm just not made for relationships, I hate this so much. I wish I was just normal.
(I'm a 22 year old woman btw)
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Nothing sounds wrong with you at all. Sometimes we want what we cant have, and sometimes we truly want something. To me it sounds like you haven't found the right person yet,
We all have played "games" with people we may or may not like in the past, but then someone will come along and its just easy. You wont need games and you wont need to put up a wall or barrier.
Take your time. Your young and hopefully health, with your whole life in front of you. Keep busy, enjoy yourself, and the right one will come in time.
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