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not sure where to start. i met this girl online about a yr and a half ago, shes ab 2 yrs older than me and shes been my closest friend for awhile. shes always had this issue with talking to online boys (they are harmless, they just make her feel better about herself and keep her entertained) she usually ends up caring ab them to some extent. i always lend my shoulder when it fails, and i provide my honest advice. she knows ill be therr for her regardless of if i agreed w her relationship w the guy. despite being online, my friendship w her is probably the most healthy relationship ive had in my life (we are 16 anf 18)
anyway, she kinda chilled out w the online guy thing, until probs febuary when she met this guy. i was hesitant ab him and so was she. what i heard from her, they eventually had a healthy friendship. i was used to her online boys taking up her time (so she couldnt hang oU w me occasionally ) but after awhile ,, the distance between us was... way toi much for me to feel compeltely comfortable. we are cool w being distant w each other when its to do w school and stuff. but she would go out of her way to hang ojt w him instead of me and our friend group. she knew i was hurt that we never hung out anymore, she even confronted me, she said sorry.. even tho she also said she didnt regret it. trust me i was happy she found another friend to rely on. but im also hurt how she put him above me so quickly. we would text everyday, and call at least a few times every week. and now????? i have called her once this past month, and weve msged probably 50 msgs the whole of april when we would probably average 5000 idk!! when we talk it feels weird. i have confronted her a couple times ab how i miss her and i wish she could spend some time w me. after that i left it to her to contact me (as to respect her boundaries.. i communicated how i felt, now its up to her to reach out to me)
todsy i played a game w some friends, saw she was online, asked if she would like to join, she said she wasnt feeling great, i told her to feel better and next thing i know shes on the guy friend thing. im happy she has a safe space to feel better around, although its not me anymore. i might be selfish, but it hurts. i miss her but im also so so hurt that she could just ugh replace me ig? idk. i feel so hurt and i ache every time i see her name. and i know ive probably done all i can :(
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You can let her know that you are here for her if she wants a friend. But it looks like she has moved on.
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