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I am thinking about breakingup with my boyfriend. No not because i don't love him anymore or anything , i love him so muchhhh.....he is the first person i've ever liked so much but because he deserves so much which i am unable to give.
One day he texted me he feels like he is in a long distance relationship well he has this weird thing that he wants to meet alone in my house....and the thing is it's rare that I am home alone as my mother is a stay at home mother so it's not that very often everyone goes out except for me . I am able to meet him outside. Today he texted me , feels that i have kept him just to talk online ....the thing my family lives in a 2 BHK apartment where the rooms are too close and also my parents are super strict, so i cannot call him ....i can go on terrace but he has his time latebat night which isn't possible for me .
I mean if it were me at instead of him i would have felt so baaddd
And i don't do it intentionally, its the circumstances and environment.
I think i shouldn't even date anymore anyone...i am sooo worthless i make people feel worst.
So any advices on what should I do?
Breaking up would be really hard for meeee......it will take soo much time to move onnn....but in the other hand he deserves muchhh....
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"Today he texted me , feels that i have kept him just to talk online"
^ what's wrong with that? I think what he's really saying is he wants to get physical, and if you don't agree then he's done.
Am I reading too deep into this? That's just what it sounds like. You can't evict your family just so he can come over, and he should understand that. I think you should dump him, but not because he deserves better, but because YOU deserve better :) Find a guy who has some empathy for your situation. Someone who can wait as long as it takes. That's the kind of person who's worth holding on to.
ReplyBruh grow some self love. He is obviously impatient and childish. You are doing nothing wrong
ReplyI dont understand why he wants to meet alone in your house. That is kind of pushy. If he really loved you and cared, he'd wait.
ReplyIt’s not your fault. He should understand your situation if he loves you just as you should do the same. Tell your problems to him directly
ReplySometimes relationships don't work out because of mundane scheduling conflicts like this, and that's just kind of how it goes. It doesn't make you a bad person, or mean that you're not able to have relationships.
It just sounds like you're not really able to make the timings work with this guy... or create enough privacy to do whatever intimate stuff he might have in mind (Is that what you want too?)
Is he making you feel bad about not making yourself available for him, as if it's your fault? If so, you can feel less bad about dumping him. Nobody should be made to feel worthless.
Sorry it didn't work out. Cherish the memories.
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